Daycare vs. Stay-at-Home Parenting -- your approach, the sacrifices and/or compromises you're willing to make, etc.

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thats a really good criteria actually!

is it bad that i am creeped out about home daycare places? because i kind of am

O_o-O_O-o_O (jjjusten), Wednesday, 22 May 2013 18:53 (ten years ago) link

no. i mean i think they're a good idea for a group of parents who cant afford a daycare to set up but unless you know and trust the caretaker my instinct is no way.

educate yourself to this reality (sunny successor), Wednesday, 22 May 2013 18:58 (ten years ago) link

I went to a home daycare for a few years, and it was weird. Things get awkward when the caretaker's real kids are interacting with the daycare kids. Someone's going to get favorited.

pplains, Wednesday, 22 May 2013 19:45 (ten years ago) link

i went to a home day care from 6 mo til preschool, and it was fine. the lady who ran it wound up being my primary babysitter until she died. i called her grammy and liked her a lot better than my actual grandma, who never took care of me. grammy and i used to watch star trek, kung fu, and the muppets together. she was wonderful. when she died, her family buried her with a picture i drew of us together <3 that lady. i got to know her weird family and their kids and everything. they had a dog named satin. the end.

free your spirit pig (La Lechera), Wednesday, 22 May 2013 19:55 (ten years ago) link

my mom found her because she answered my mom's ad in the newspaper btw

free your spirit pig (La Lechera), Wednesday, 22 May 2013 20:02 (ten years ago) link

thats an awesome story LL

O_o-O_O-o_O (jjjusten), Wednesday, 22 May 2013 20:28 (ten years ago) link

my mom found her because she answered my mom's ad in the newspaper btw

your mom put an ad in the newspaper to get rid of you....?

four Marxes plus four Obamas plus four Bin Ladens (Shakey Mo Collier), Wednesday, 22 May 2013 22:08 (ten years ago) link

Apparently

free your spirit pig (La Lechera), Thursday, 23 May 2013 00:18 (ten years ago) link

think we found one. theyre willing to take little dude for just 2 days a week, and one of the prime teachers/kid wranglers is the sister of a dude i have known for years (and who i have hung out with along w/her brother). i have to admit that the almost factory vibe of these places is a little unnerving - like the people were all super awesome, but yknow room with 15 cribs or whatever just sets off all those distopian sci fi freakouts even thow i get it.

the number one issue is that they don't confirm placement more than 30 days in advance? which seems fucking crazy to me.

O_o-O_O-o_O (jjjusten), Wednesday, 29 May 2013 18:21 (ten years ago) link

yeah that was the case with the daycares we looked at too but I think it might have been 6 weeks. Anything longer than that then you had to start paying the full weekly amount even though your kiddo isnt even there yet.

educate yourself to this reality (sunny successor), Wednesday, 29 May 2013 20:35 (ten years ago) link

also, im glad you found someone you know!

educate yourself to this reality (sunny successor), Wednesday, 29 May 2013 20:36 (ten years ago) link


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