This Is the Pregnancy Commiseration and Support Thread

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Hope all is still going well for you, Carl.

I'm having occasional but annoying almost-faints: in the last month it's happened twice in the bathroom and just now on the station platform, which made me miss my train because boarding would have been a very bad idea. When I told the midwife she basically said, "meh that happens to loads of people, your blood pressure is perfect" so I'm more annoyed than worried.

Madchen, Friday, 15 November 2013 08:44 (ten years ago) link

Baby Center and the like always list fainting as one if the fun things you can enjoy as a pregnant person. It sucks that it's happening to you!

How far along are you now?

carl agatha, Friday, 15 November 2013 14:10 (ten years ago) link

29 weeks on Sunday. I have been given iron tablets for the fainting, and the afternoon off work hurrah. Midwife basically told me to consider him a parasite and do all I can to replenish what he's sucking out of me. Babby was head down, arse out for her and his heartbeat was strong so draining my life force is clearly to his advantage.

Madchen, Friday, 15 November 2013 14:21 (ten years ago) link

Ha! I remember when I started craving milk like it was the only thing that mattered in the world. Then I read the weekly update and that coincided with the baby sucking all the calcium from me to make its own little bones and it all made sense.

carl agatha, Friday, 15 November 2013 14:24 (ten years ago) link

Checking in xo

*tera, Sunday, 17 November 2013 15:50 (ten years ago) link

Oh, you know, nothing major. I'm having a baby tomorrow morning at 7 am.

carl agatha, Sunday, 17 November 2013 16:01 (ten years ago) link

Eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!

carl agatha, Sunday, 17 November 2013 16:01 (ten years ago) link

I didn't get the evite.

Jeff, Sunday, 17 November 2013 16:04 (ten years ago) link

Does your room have a whiteboard? You should totally write up a Monday to-do list like:

1) Brush teeth
2) Have babby
3) Freak out over babby reality
4) Etc.

And then cross items off as you complete them throughout the day.

quincie, Sunday, 17 November 2013 16:11 (ten years ago) link

SQUEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEL!!!!

*tera, Sunday, 17 November 2013 16:16 (ten years ago) link

yaaaay carl!! you are one of three women i know who is in the exact same position -- one already had her baby (girl) and you seem poised to be next, although i haven't heard about the third one.

sweat pea (La Lechera), Sunday, 17 November 2013 16:22 (ten years ago) link

It's raining babies.

carl agatha, Sunday, 17 November 2013 16:37 (ten years ago) link

lolololol This is exciting!

Tottenham Heelspur (in orbit), Sunday, 17 November 2013 16:47 (ten years ago) link

There is a white board. Under "special needs" the nurses wrote "Stay pregnant :)" because that is how we joke in the perinatal surveillance unit.

Anyway me and the baby made it to 34 weeks, 6 days, which will significantly reduce NICU time so I'm pleased and can get excited about getting THE FUCK OUT OF THE HOSPITAL and also having my wee baby.

carl agatha, Sunday, 17 November 2013 17:20 (ten years ago) link

I haven't been outside in almost three weeks, guys.

http://boxercrazy.org/forum/Smileys/jason/straightj.gif

carl agatha, Sunday, 17 November 2013 17:23 (ten years ago) link

OMG Carl and Jeff!! This is so exciting!!!

Outside there are trees, which are like very tall vegetables, and shiny metal animals with glowing eyes that you get inside of to go places.

Tottenham Heelspur (in orbit), Sunday, 17 November 2013 18:05 (ten years ago) link

Gosh, there really IS a Nathalie Dee cartoon for everything.

Tottenham Heelspur (in orbit), Sunday, 17 November 2013 18:05 (ten years ago) link

Natalie Dee had a baby at 33 or 34 weeks because of preeclampsia so that is extra appropriate.

carl agatha, Sunday, 17 November 2013 18:22 (ten years ago) link

I wasn't going to post the link to that story until AFTER your birth but know that I dearly dearly wanted to. I'm glad we're on the same wavelength there.

Tottenham Heelspur (in orbit), Sunday, 17 November 2013 18:24 (ten years ago) link

I've read it (and Jessica Valenti's story) about 1000 times since I learned of my particular complication, mostly because the stories had happy endings.

carl agatha, Sunday, 17 November 2013 18:32 (ten years ago) link

I've been meaning to come here, and have just caught up with what day it is and been reading about how you couldn't even go outside all this time!!! All the best!

ljubljana, Monday, 18 November 2013 04:00 (ten years ago) link

yes!!! uh, break a leg or something? <3

mookieproof, Monday, 18 November 2013 04:02 (ten years ago) link

break a water!

twist boat veterans for stability (k3vin k.), Monday, 18 November 2013 04:05 (ten years ago) link

Bust a move.

Jeff, Monday, 18 November 2013 04:07 (ten years ago) link

tuesday keeps getting closer and closer, best best wishes<3

estela, Monday, 18 November 2013 11:56 (ten years ago) link

this is so exciting!!

Homo schaduwkabinet (Stevie D(eux)), Monday, 18 November 2013 12:54 (ten years ago) link

Waiting waiting waiting

Jeff, Monday, 18 November 2013 13:12 (ten years ago) link

zomg I only just saw this. exciting! all the best, carl, jeff and babby

not a player-hater i just hate a lot (a passing spacecadet), Monday, 18 November 2013 13:31 (ten years ago) link

^

<3

JuliaA, Monday, 18 November 2013 13:44 (ten years ago) link

thinking of u guys this morning!

call all destroyer, Monday, 18 November 2013 14:10 (ten years ago) link

Baby is born! Everything is looking good. More later.

Jeff, Monday, 18 November 2013 14:29 (ten years ago) link

Eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!

Madchen, Monday, 18 November 2013 14:30 (ten years ago) link

yeah!!

call all destroyer, Monday, 18 November 2013 14:31 (ten years ago) link

Yayyyyyyy

WilliamC, Monday, 18 November 2013 14:32 (ten years ago) link

Congratulations! Whooo!

how's life, Monday, 18 November 2013 14:40 (ten years ago) link

Yay new baby!!!

tokyo rosemary, Monday, 18 November 2013 14:41 (ten years ago) link

yaaaay i was thinking about you guys when i woke up!
congrats!! give carl a squeeze for me!

sweat pea (La Lechera), Monday, 18 November 2013 14:42 (ten years ago) link

Good news!

set the controls for the heart of the sun (VegemiteGrrl), Monday, 18 November 2013 14:43 (ten years ago) link

:)

Immediate Follower (NA), Monday, 18 November 2013 14:49 (ten years ago) link

Yay carl, jeff, babby!!!!

quincie, Monday, 18 November 2013 14:50 (ten years ago) link

gosh now I am going to spend the entire day wondering about babby's genitals and name

quincie, Monday, 18 November 2013 14:51 (ten years ago) link

Yay! Thumbs up all the way for the new baby!

ruth rendell writing as (askance johnson), Monday, 18 November 2013 15:09 (ten years ago) link

Congratulations!

Jaq, Monday, 18 November 2013 15:11 (ten years ago) link

congrats!

not a player-hater i just hate a lot (a passing spacecadet), Monday, 18 November 2013 15:12 (ten years ago) link

radical news

gbx, Monday, 18 November 2013 15:21 (ten years ago) link

congratulations!!!

smize without a face (c sharp major), Monday, 18 November 2013 15:24 (ten years ago) link

It's a girl, Ivy Elizabeth. She's hanging out in the NICU now getting warm now. Carl is doing good, recovering.

Jeff, Monday, 18 November 2013 15:27 (ten years ago) link


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