This Is the Pregnancy Commiseration and Support Thread

Time for me to leave this thread OMG there is a baby in the room! Vital stats: boy, 7lb 8oz, 10.30pm, 9 Feb. We're still in hospital because of my high BP and he has a touch of jaundice but we shouldn't be in too much longer, touch wood. Name tbc very soon, but for the moment let's call him GORGEOUS LOVELY TINY PERSON.

huge congratulations to you and stet, that is wonderful news.

congratulations on the new tiny person!! hooray!

WTG mum, dad, and gltp !!

His name is Fox!

Many congrats Madchen & Stet

Awesome news, all around! Welcome, Fox! Well done, madchen and Stet!

yoyoyoyo congrats!

oh wow. Congratulations!

Congrats to Madchen and Stet, and welcome Fox!

Congratulations!!!! Fox! Delightful and wonderful!!!

sup fox! :D

Big congrats to all three of you ilx stalwarts (well, two stalwarts and one future stalwart)!

Awwwww...congrats!!! <3

Fox is a great name! Congratulations! I'm joining this thread because I made a people and have been sooooo sick for the past couple of months I've hardly had the energy to be excited. I'm even on pregnant lady anti-nausea meds and still throw up every other day and feel moderately sick and fatigued all the time. Pregnancy is crazy and I hope it doesn't make me crazy. I think I'm sort of starting to feel better? 14 weeks complete on Saturday! They say energy comes back after that marker. I have resigned myself to the merest of hope for that... Super active fetus during ultrasound made me happy though :)

I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope this is your turning point and you get to eat food with some enjoyment from now on! Omg motherhood Robyn-style, it's amazing.

Whoa hey congratulations!!! Exciting!

I was nauseated as hell, too, and couldn't even think about eating most food. I feel you - it really sucks. I'm very pleased to report that the nausea did go away (not until I was about five months though :( ) and the food aversions went away after delivery. I even ate two vegetables for breakfast today that I wouldn't have even been able to think about without hurling this time last year. I won't mention them in case they are on your hurl list.

Hahaa the hurl list! So real. It's so harsh to be so hungry yet not want to eat anything and then eating something and wondering if I'll feel barfy or not because there really is no rhyme or reason to it! That's slowly been changing in the past week, thankfully, but nausea remains present all the time - I think I've just gotten used to it and let myself slow down from the usual pace of my life (I srsly was basically bedridden for weeks 8-10 - I had to say no to some work because of it, managed to watch all of Merlin (lol) on netflix when screen didn't cause nausea, and stared at the ceiling or slept the rest of the time. That's when I got the meds and could semi-function again. The whole time I was like "why doesn't anyone talk about this??! Wtf!!" Oh I was angry-sad pregnant. Now at least I'm really into eating lots of fruit, which makes me happy :)

I had just been thinking of you kind of a lot and wondering where you were! I thought, ah her life is probably so full of a number of things that she's basically off the whole internet. But I missed you! And really you were busy having to have a mental hurl list. :(

Yeah I was so not well that I really withdrew from a lot of communication, incl fb. I forced myself during week 10 to reach out to everyone I know here who's had kids in the past few years and ask them about doctor recommendations, etc. And that turned into a nice congrats/commiseration thing but it was like all I could do to write back to people and thank them. I did find my ob-gyn that way, after many phone calls resulting in "sorry, not taking new patients." I think I got my doc because by the time I called his office, I was crying out of frustration and illness! Ah... But really it's been amazing how supportive people have been - there really is a pregnancy club, who knew!

And thank you L for thinking of me even if you didn't know why! <3 <3 <3

Plus the emotional roller coaster of my preg sickness has put PMS to shame, to shame. I'm amazed my friends are still my friends and so glad my bf and I have an amazing couples therapist because whoa. Onwards!

holy shit congatulations rrrobyn that's great news (pregnancy, not the hurling)

Haha thanks! :)

rrrobyn i had no idea! you are going to be a+ super-awesome mom!! Congrats!!

Wow, rrrobyn, congratulations! Hope the nausea goes away soon.

Thanks! :) :)
Yeah I haven't been on ilx in ages because I had a crazy busy work contract plus other work for 6 months and then after Christmas it's been preg stuff/sickness. And being in bands and relationship and stuff that just keeps me away from beloved internet. But I needed to tell ilx this! And will prob rant and ask questions here etc as time goes on.

It's one of those things where when ppl I love need to leave ilx or the internet for their health and personal goals, I want them to be and do well, but I'm glad when they come back to the fold after all and haven't totally left us behind. :) :) :)

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Congrats rrrobyn! It's amazing how quickly the horror of pregnancy fades, it'll be hard for you to believe but one day you'll look back on your pregnancy with fondness ;) Hope it's onwards and upwards for you now, plain sailing until 40+ weeks!

Oh, that's so awesome!! I was wondering about you too recently. Hope the sickness subsides and you start feeling better soon. Congratulations!

congratulations robyn!!!

congrats robyn!! i can't wait to find out what you're going to name it!

OMG rrrobyn I have missed you here! I think I even asked about you on the Milk Carton thread or another thread. I've never even met you IRL but you have long been a awesome and happy influence in my life. Very excited about you and babby!!!

I hope you feel lots better very soon!!!

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i can't wait to find out what you're going to name it!

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cosmo, obviously

kkevin or ssusie

Stella Rrobyn Surname

Thank you all! <3

oh god, i've hardly started thinking about names, but the one or two conversations my bf and i have had indicate that it's not going to be easy.

All in all, I'm feeling a lot better this week than I have been for the past several weeks, but I'm going to still take the medication til it's gone (about another week). I'm still generally nauseous and had to dry heave yesterday for no discernible reason, but energy is higher. I still drink coffee but not every day and when I do, only one. Because coffee is wonderful. I've been burping a lot lately though (with or without coffee), which is annoying as hell + gross. Pregnancy is just kind of gross. "Beautiful" and gross.

irony of ironies: in December, I won a "Year of Beer" in the funding drive contest for the community radio station I volunteer with. Got pregnant at end of December. I haven't collected on beer yet but I think I'm just going to pay jam space rent with it and give it to friends. But seriously, LOL.

Terrible timing re. beer, but congratulations Rrrobyn! The nausea is awful - I could only quell it by eating really plain sandwiches and forcing down those first few mouthfuls was horrid. Enjoy trimester two - have fun adventures before the third kicks in with its heartburn and general enormity :)

not to be a downer on this thread but - these stories got me thinking, wtf do women do who are alone and work low paying jobs that don't provide paid sick leave???

congrax rrobyn, world needs more awesome momz

congradulations!

yeah, this is superb news and one lucky kiddo!

As a low-income freelancer with a low-income partner all I can say, just1ne, is thank god I live in a special place called Canada and an even more highly taxed place within it called Quebec, which provides fairly decent govt maternity & paternity leave for all + subsidized $7/day daycare. Oh and health care obv. I don't even want to think about the worries that would face me in the US (though for one I probably would've gone a different, more lucrative career route many years ago.)

In other news, I went to a play tonight and it was opening night so there was food afterwards, incl a big fruit plate - all I want to eat these days is fruit! All the fruit.

subsidized $7/day daycare

*sob*

I'm whispering, "Apply to college in Canada* into Ivy's ear rn.

Or don't go to college. Cheaper!