Do you slag off your exes?

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I try not to do it, usually the truth does enough.

(But hell, sometimes, with certain of them, it's just too easy...)

― luna (luna.c), Friday, 16 May 2003 03:42 (twenty years ago) link

this is a great question although it should be preceded by the word "why", as i was thinking just recently why are there so many people on ilx who regard their exes with horror, or mention them in the sense of " oh, so-and-so...*shiver*!!"

i guess there must be people who have exes they still like as people, and are friends with, but we never hear from them! also, it's weird that despite the fact that most of the people here are of above average intelligence, their choices of mate may not reflect this!

so, is there a correlation? book-learnin = lovers-spurnin!

― jeannot, Friday, 16 May 2003 08:05 (twenty years ago) link

Only the ones who I don't have, but I do have other exes who I still think are wubbly (for HEART BREAKING BASTARDS THAT IS) (no not really). Er :)

― Sarah (starry), Friday, 16 May 2003 09:17 (twenty years ago) link

of course i slag off my exes. whats the fun in life if you can't slag off people who are idiots?

more fool you for going out with them.

this, essentially, is why I avoid slagging off exes.

apart from THAT BITCH who destroyed my life, wrecked my car, sold all my records, and invited ARE Weapons to stay in my flat.

― DV (dirtyvicar), Friday, 16 May 2003 09:19 (twenty years ago) link

Well, some of the things that have happened to me lately have been discussed elsewhere hereabouts, so I can hardly claim I don't do this (though the question did exclude monstrous behaviour) - but I've also said some positive things about my ex-wife lately, and apart from some things she has done since she came down with depression over two years ago, almost everything I'd say about her would be hugely positive.

As for the three serious girlfriends since (I was with each for 2-4 months), I have nothing but good things to say about them, and I value the memories of our relationships.

― Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Friday, 16 May 2003 17:35 (twenty years ago) link

i have one ex that i don't slag off, because we're still friends.

― Ethyl L. K'Hol (Ethyl L. K'Hol), Saturday, 17 May 2003 00:55 (twenty years ago) link

DV, shut up, I never went out with you.

― Ally (mlescaut), Saturday, 17 May 2003 00:59 (twenty years ago) link

I slag off exes all the time. That damn rnaapp.exe kept on crashing in mid-net session, and I think windows.exe just hates me, so it can go to hell.

― Trayce (trayce), Saturday, 17 May 2003 03:33 (twenty years ago) link

But um seriously (lest I sound nerdy for too long)... I guess sometimes it is too easy to slag off certain exes if it helps heal the hurt. I know I've made jokes about some of mine, and others I've certainly had bad words about but they did nasty things to me. Overall I try and stay friends with guys I've dated, I mean I liked them enough to go out with them!

I think I usually end up whining about how it was my fault things went pearshaped, not the guy's. I'm silly like that.

― Trayce (trayce), Saturday, 17 May 2003 03:36 (twenty years ago) link

i have been mean about exes, but now im getting along with both of the most 'relevant' ones i no longer do it.
time helps.

― donna (donna), Saturday, 17 May 2003 07:30 (twenty years ago) link

nine months pass...

I ran into my ex tonight. We're still completely in love, but we remain incompatible. It was a very sweet Dud.

― Spencer Chow (spencermfi), Tuesday, 24 February 2004 10:38 (twenty years ago) link

"Do you shag off your exes?"

― Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Tuesday, 24 February 2004 14:30 (twenty years ago) link

thirteen years pass...

Wonderful people, exes

― jk rowling obituary thread (darraghmac), Tuesday, 8 August 2017 23:37 (six years ago) link

two months pass...

Wait what

― Gary Synaesthesia (darraghmac), Monday, 16 October 2017 22:38 (six years ago) link

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