Swiping people left and right: the Tinder/hook-up culture discussion

this article is completely made-up right? someone watched wolf of wall street the night before and based their techno-fear article on it.

More American Psycho than anything else

pretty sure that's not how most ppl use "fuckboy"

^ yeah, that was kinda lol. made me second guess my going definition, but urban dictionary backed me up.

ive definitely heard this definition of fuckboy taking hold

lol @ Bananaman B

I just thought it was a synonym for "rentboy".

my favorite was the explanation of "get it in". imagining vf readers reaching this cryptic phrase in the midpoint of a very long article about casual sex and being baffled.

Read it more often (agreeing with the article) as fuckboi, but you know how it is with kids these days.

lol did anyone find the "researcher perspectives" quoted to be totally absurd? eg human sexuality professors quoted saying "this is a whole new phase in the evolution of human sexuality"

Twenty years ago I was in college and there were dudes whose life was organized around maximizing number of vaginas entered and there were dudes who were mostly looking for girlfriends and not particularly hustling for sex outside this context. (And I mean obviously some continuum between these.) The article paints a picture of a dating environment really well-adapted for the first class of dudes but the second class doesn't really appear in this article. Is the point that they don't exist anymore, as some of the women in the article claim? Or are they still around, and just kind of doing what they've always done, and not using Tinder, or using Tinder to find girlfriends instead of maximizing sex-count, or...?

people sure to love to read about rich young people who seem to fuck more than average

feel like there could be a whole lot of media put together about this!!

read half of goole's previous comment and immediately thought of Migos

soooo...investment banking douches competing for notches in their belts...is a new thing brought on by technology?

Some guys, they say, in order to hide their multiple sex partners from each other, will assign them fake names in their phones, such as “Crazy Mike.”

REPORTING

lmao every time i type "tinder" i mistakenly type "tindr" at first, why is it not called "tindr" what is up with that extra vowel? totally unnecesssary

yes this article is one of those insufferable NYC-center-of-the-universe table talk pieces

― Robert Earl Hughes (dandydonweiner), Thursday, August 6, 2015 5:30 PM (Yesterday) Bookmark Flag Post Permali

Exactly. "No one seems to just want to make a human connection anymore" say rich 20-somethings mostly interested in their careers and partying.

lmao every time i type "tinder" i mistakenly type "tindr" at first, why is it not called "tindr" what is up with that extra vowel? totally unnecesssary

― marcos, Friday, August 7, 2015 2:11 PM (13 minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

straights need e to do their thing

"I don’t want it to be like that, but sometimes the world is the way it is and I can’t change it, so I just embrace it.” wow has any statement ever captured the awful mentality of str8 white dudes so perfectly?

i was totally gonna post that and be like yea wtffffffffffffffffffffff fuck these assholes jesus christ

https://twitter.com/samknight1/status/631280024679776256

kinda siding with Tinder there tbh

lol, what's with the insane hyper-defensiveness? Like one chin-strokey article about tinder is any kind of threat to the business.

Feel like Tinder have a fair case with a smug, poorly reported piece

This was very good: http://thehairpin.com/2015/08/breaking-dating-men-still-sucks-for-women/

http://www.slate.com/articles/technology/users/2015/08/tinder_and_the_moral_panic_over_women_using_technology_to_meet_men_and_have.single.html

Anyone tried Bumble? Met someone from another city thanks to it and the whole process has seemed both more serious and more generous. The idea that women have to commit first is a nice reversal of situations that leads to more trust from the get go. It's more my wheelhouse.

no one is on it here

lmao

https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=bumble.android

http://time.com/3851583/bumble-whitney-wolfe/

http://www.theglobeandmail.com/report-on-business/small-business/sb-marketing/rethinking-the-tinder-generation/article26003958/

someone please tell me this isn't really a 'trend'

every time i type "tinder" i mistakenly type "hinder" at first

can we have a moritorium on articles abt how millenials are like totally different than any previous generation

https://chrome.google.com/webstore/detail/millennials-to-snake-peop/jhkibealmjkbkafogihpeidfcgnigmlf?hl=en-US

still really useful

https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/94609711/Millennial%20Swipe%20Sim%202015_F/index.html
trenchant video game commentary

I would love to try out Bumble but I'm an Android user so I'm SOL.

haha that's awesome

xp

lol trenchant

http://fortune.com/2015/09/09/tinder-super-like/

and carly rae still can't go gold

http://38.media.tumblr.com/46d06ef5825391b15d30a3186e029ff7/tumblr_n5me0pJ6xH1qlzc82o1_r2_500.gif

wow

yeah, aces

i'd have swiped right on her

http://www.fastcompany.com/3054871/whats-your-tinder-score-inside-the-apps-internal-ranking-system

I'm so boring on tinder. In general too, but mostly on tinder. Have no idea how to get the conversation rolling/am lazy and sort of want my matches to do this for me

In a current conversation a woman mentioned she liked this park. I mentioned it was close to my brother's place and so I will try to check it out one day. She said I should do that. Now I am stumped.

Fsce to face conversation is easier

i don't know a whole lot about tinder but isn't the spirit of thing that you tell her it looks like a nice park and ask if she wants to meet at the park for hooking up?

ha treesh your park conversation sounds so much like every conversation i've ever had on tinder and i used to be pretty good at being charming and flirty in internet venues (non-ilx).