defend the indefensible: THE IVY LEAGUE

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I didn't go to school at a fuckin' country club. Harvard has some nice buildings but you're pretty much right there in the middle of Cambridge, there are "real people" (don't twist it, them quotes is ironic) all over the place.

Maybe Dartmouth is like that, except it's more country than club, or Princeton or something, I dunno, I only did one road trip my whole four years. But this painting with a broad brush thing, I dunno.

And what the fuck parties did YOU get to go to? Our parties were fueled by beer from kegs and music by Prince. I didn't see anyone doing any coke in four years (my roommate saw that once I think)...shit, I must have been the wrong kind of Ivy Leaguer, a.k.a. Not The Straw Man.

Begs2Differ (Begs2Differ), Sunday, 7 March 2004 18:12 (twenty years ago) link

(Of course everyone's bringing out the Ivy League Strawman. Last I checked, no one was serious about burning down the Ivies.)

miloauckerman (miloauckerman), Sunday, 7 March 2004 18:13 (twenty years ago) link

that's probably true. glad I'm out already though, just in case. where's my mint julep?

Begs2Differ (Begs2Differ), Sunday, 7 March 2004 18:15 (twenty years ago) link

And the "stars might not be great teachers" complaint is valid but I'm not at all convinced it's more true of the Ivy League than every other college in the country. The education industry rewards publication and research more consistently and universally than classroom experience. It's where the money lives. Christ, UNO had Stephen Ambrose, a "star" who was never in the classroom (his lectures were videotaped) and it's at least as far from the Ivy League as New Orleans is from Cambridge.

Tep (ktepi), Sunday, 7 March 2004 18:16 (twenty years ago) link

my brother went to Williams. So did one of my best friends from high school. It's not so bad.

hstencil, Sunday, 7 March 2004 20:35 (twenty years ago) link

Milo - I never thought of blackmail, but the daughter of an oil company exec skipped out on us without paying rent or bills (to go skiing or some shit), so I tracked down the dad (in Switzerland, one of their four homes) and sent him copies of all the bills and proof that she hadn't paid rent. Oooo, was she pissed.

Kerry (dymaxia), Sunday, 7 March 2004 21:01 (twenty years ago) link

umm guys does mcgill count? (it thinks it does)

s1ocki (slutsky), Sunday, 7 March 2004 21:13 (twenty years ago) link

count as what? A school in canada? Yes.

Skottie, Sunday, 7 March 2004 21:58 (twenty years ago) link

I KINDA WISH THAT THIS THREAD WOULD'VE LIKE DISAPPEARED DURING THE GREAT ILXOR SERVER MELTDOWN ... BUT IT WAS NOT to be

Eisbär (llamasfur), Tuesday, 9 March 2004 00:39 (twenty years ago) link

I agree. Not my finest hour(s). Tad, we're still friends and/or acquaintances, right? Has my sentence been commuted?

Begs2Differ (Begs2Differ), Tuesday, 9 March 2004 00:55 (twenty years ago) link

sure i am a love sponge

Eisbär (llamasfur), Tuesday, 9 March 2004 00:56 (twenty years ago) link

Eh I don't mind being lumped in with the Ivies because it's just another opportunity to vent on Stanfurd.

Leee the Lee (Leee), Tuesday, 9 March 2004 01:01 (twenty years ago) link

Yeah this question kind of got right up my back. I'm sorry I snapped milo!! I am an idiot.

Tracer Hand (tracerhand), Tuesday, 9 March 2004 01:01 (twenty years ago) link

And I just want to say, regarding "never having to worry about unemployment"

BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Tracer Hand (tracerhand), Tuesday, 9 March 2004 01:02 (twenty years ago) link

Like B2D, I got into all sorts of prestigious schools which offered 'packages' that made it cheaper for me to go to them than it was to go to a state school.

One of the funniest things I heard recently was a HS friend who went to Penn bitterly complaining about her lack of progress in the face of the 'Carleton mafia'. I reckon the grass is always greener...

Kerry, people from all over the world come to study architecture at the Bartlett School in London which is headed by Peter Cook from Archigram. As to concerns about elitism and that, fuck it, because you just have to remember that they get to meet YOU and besides you should endeavour to go somewhere really international in student intake (this is especially worthwhile in an Arch. course). Or you could apply to do architecture at the Cooper Union which is similar but free, right?

suzy (suzy), Tuesday, 9 March 2004 01:41 (twenty years ago) link

Nobody hates Ivy League undergrads more than Ivy League grad students who applied to, but couldn't afford, Ivy League schools as undergraduates.

No, it's: Nobody hates Ivy League undergrads more than students who applied to, but couldn't afford, Ivy League schools as undergraduates, but who went anyway and now have no job and massive student loans.

Insomniette, Tuesday, 9 March 2004 01:50 (twenty years ago) link

Luna is right about the networking being all-important-- I went to Wellesley, where they like to remind you over & over & over about the alum network. Well, at least I did enjoy how beautiful the campus was while I was there. Anyway, no one in Seattle has ever heard of it, which is fine by me. I work with a bunch of MIT and CMU and other geek school graduates who can be far, far snottier about which school you went to than most ivy leaguers I've met.

lyra (lyra), Tuesday, 9 March 2004 02:02 (twenty years ago) link

Insomniette OTM.

I couldn't believe how smug my classmates were about money at Yale. The financial aid office told me that my parents should sell their house to pay my tuition. So when I graduated I had loans to the bank, to the government, to relatives. Like a mortgage with no house.

Skottie, Tuesday, 9 March 2004 02:07 (twenty years ago) link

-So where do you go to school?
-*(Poison) Ivy League institution*
-Oh...
-Yeah, it's awesome. Like, we actually get down, dirty, and in line with the plebes.
-Um...I...gotta go.
-OH! Leaving so soon?
-Um, yea. I'm, uh...I...gotta go.

Francis Watlington (Francis Watlington), Tuesday, 9 March 2004 02:09 (twenty years ago) link

Most of the schools are wising up to that kind of attitude being a Bad Thing these days-- Wellesley, Darmouth and Harvard, at least, (and possibly others) try to supply only grants these days & keep loans to the bare minimum. Just a week or two ago, Harvard announced that for students from families that made less than $40,000, they wouldn't ask the parents for anything. That's kind of neat- they're realizing at least that they are SURREALLY expensive.

lyra (lyra), Tuesday, 9 March 2004 02:10 (twenty years ago) link

heh, xpost with Francis. ;-)

lyra (lyra), Tuesday, 9 March 2004 02:10 (twenty years ago) link

From the Yale web site:

The Estimated Cost of Attendance
Tuition and fees: $28,400
Room and Board: $8,600
Books and personal expenses: $2,620
Cost for one academic year: $39,620

Skottie, Tuesday, 9 March 2004 02:13 (twenty years ago) link

Princeton has need-blind admissions, will cover costs in grant money so that all students can graduate debt free, and something like 50% of undergrads were receiving some kind of financial aid when i was there. Now if you'll excuse me, I've got a massive pile of blow to do.

That Guy (rotten03), Tuesday, 9 March 2004 02:33 (twenty years ago) link

Why are "need-blind" admissions good? That works directly to the benefit of the wealthy/ier - they're the ones with better grades and more extracurriculars because they didn't have jobs, higher SAT scores because they spent a grand on test prep.

The one time I made an argument for class-based affirmative action in a class, I got called a racist, so maybe I should shut up.

miloauckerman (miloauckerman), Tuesday, 9 March 2004 02:39 (twenty years ago) link

Excuse me if I question the reality of the graduate debt free claim. Granted it's been a long time since I graduated, but I can imagine their financial aid package having a substantial contribution from the student/student's parents that is completely unrealistic. Oh, Mr. Jones, your dad makes $65,000 per year. Surely he can come up with $15,000. That's reasonable, isn't it?

Skottie, Tuesday, 9 March 2004 02:39 (twenty years ago) link

The ivies have had need-blind admissions for years, if not decades. That ain't the point. How you gonna pay that shit once you up in that bitch?

Skottie, Tuesday, 9 March 2004 02:41 (twenty years ago) link

Mind you, I went to college in the eighties. Maybe things are different now, but my old roommate came to town recently, and we both remembered all of the drug abuse going on among the rich kids.

I got nearly a full ride, but I can't imagine getting a grant that size now - it would have to be nearly three times what I got then.

Kerry (dymaxia), Tuesday, 9 March 2004 02:44 (twenty years ago) link

Uh...I think the drugs were pretty egalitarian. EV'RY BOTAY was doin' them back in the day.

Skottie, Tuesday, 9 March 2004 02:51 (twenty years ago) link

The ivies have had need-blind admissions for years, if not decades.

Not 100% true. Brown only recently instituted a need-blind policy. It starts actually taking effect in 2007. The current undegrads are rather.. fortunate.

daria g (daria g), Tuesday, 9 March 2004 03:05 (twenty years ago) link

pffft, us public-u plebes at rutgers out-drank AND out-drugged muffy and buffy princeton student (at least from 1988-1993 we did).

Eisbär (llamasfur), Tuesday, 9 March 2004 04:25 (twenty years ago) link

The one time I made an argument for class-based affirmative action in a class, I got called a racist, so maybe I should shut up.

yeah, yer lucky trife hasn't found this thread ... (and i happen to agree with you on this issue).

Eisbär (llamasfur), Tuesday, 9 March 2004 04:27 (twenty years ago) link

Rutgers rocks! Playing hockey against you guys was always fun. Colgate was best though; dude in our band stood up and said "Hey, Colgate! We penetrate your defense like this colored liquid penetrates this chalk!" (I've told this story before, but if you remember this commercial then you will realize how f'ing genius it was.)

Begs2Differ (Begs2Differ), Tuesday, 9 March 2004 07:27 (twenty years ago) link

I didn't got (or apply to) to an ivy league school - but my favorite part of going to a competitive school was having classmates that were at roughly the same level as me, which meant that classes for the first time went at a good pace and were taught at a level of detail that I found interesting, and at times, overwhelming.

Also, I realize what a great library it had - journals from 1890! Another good thing about non-state/private schools - the variety of students from all over the place, countries, cultural backgrounds, etc is great - most of my classmates were interesting and intense people. I liked being in a city having access to amazing professors.

marianna, Tuesday, 9 March 2004 11:30 (twenty years ago) link

Why are "need-blind" admissions good? That works directly to the benefit of the wealthy/ier - they're the ones with better grades and more extracurriculars because they didn't have jobs, higher SAT scores because they spent a grand on test prep.

This is actually several shades of bullshit. There were a bunch of rich kids in my class of 1600, but there were also a LARGE number of middle-class/lower-class kids as well; in fact, one of my roommates paid something like $4000 for his entire college education thanks to financial aid. Actually, something like 85% of the undergraduate population receives financial aid at one level or another (one of the benefits to having an endowment the size of a small country's GNP).

Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Tuesday, 9 March 2004 14:10 (twenty years ago) link

i guess i should expand my definition of "ivy league" from the actual members thereof (harvard, yale, dartmouth, princeton, columbia, penn, cornell, brown) to include the snootier (ahem, "more selective") public universities (like UVA, U Mich., Cal-Berkeley, U. Texas-Austin, UNC-Chapel Hill), certain mega private universities (NYU, U. Chicago, Northwestern, Johns Hopkins, Georgetown, Duke) and smaller private colleges (too many to list -- think Swarthmore, Williams, Amherst, that ilk).

So now I'm Ivy League? I already feel snootier!

El Diablo Robotico (Nicole), Tuesday, 9 March 2004 14:11 (twenty years ago) link

I'm still not Ivy League, so fuck y'all motherfuckers.

Ned Raggett (Ned), Tuesday, 9 March 2004 14:12 (twenty years ago) link

I went to an Ivy League Junior College.

Chris 'The Velvet Bingo' V (Chris V), Tuesday, 9 March 2004 14:13 (twenty years ago) link

Oh, come on Ned. UCLA wanted me to give them my grades back to SEVENTH GRADE when I was applying to schools; not even Harvard wanted that!

Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Tuesday, 9 March 2004 14:14 (twenty years ago) link

My experiences at MIT's need-blind admissions echo what Dan says, with a very large nubmer of people recieving financial aid. My financial aid package made it cheaper for me to go to MIT than pay for the in-state tuition at U.Mich. The endowment at MIT also meant that I had good term and summer paid research positions. Also my experience of people with very high and perfect SAT scores is that they didn't need to recieve any test coaching to score high.

Maybe going to crappy high schools give you a disadvantage on the test, but that certainly didn't keep several people I knew who went to public schools in Florida, Arkansas or central DC schools from scoring very well and going to good Universities.

marianna, Tuesday, 9 March 2004 14:23 (twenty years ago) link

This is actually several shades of bullshit. There were a bunch of rich kids in my class of 1600, but there were also a LARGE number of middle-class/lower-class kids as well; in fact, one of my roommates paid something like $4000 for his entire college education thanks to financial aid.

I would imagine so. In my experience, the dumbest kids at school were the richest ones - they didn't have to work to compete - they got legacies, or their daddies gave lots of money to the school. Those were the ones who sat around their dorms all day getting drunk or snorting coke.

Also, I hate to say it, but I always looked down on those kids whose parents spent all that money on test prep courses. If you're paying attention in school, you shouldn't need that stuff. I worked for admissions one year, and I saw first hand that they look for well-rounded, articulate, interesting students.

Kerry (dymaxia), Tuesday, 9 March 2004 16:00 (twenty years ago) link

Also, schools can guess what your financial situation is like just by looking at your hometown, region, or high school. And if your community is under-represented (often because of economics), it gives you an edge in admissions. My hometown is a synonym for 'trailer trash', so I'm sure my application got extra attention for that.

Kerry (dymaxia), Tuesday, 9 March 2004 16:03 (twenty years ago) link

Kerry OTM.

Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Tuesday, 9 March 2004 16:05 (twenty years ago) link

it wasn't just expensive schools that gave students a hard time wr2 financial aid. i got the "yer parents can mortgage their house!" line from rutgers financial aid, too.

Eisbär (llamasfur), Tuesday, 9 March 2004 16:13 (twenty years ago) link

Not all test prep classes are useless, at least from the students point of view, I hate taking standardized tests, and when I took the PSAT I bombed the math section (we're talking low, low 300s here). I was taking calculus & physics & a college chem class that year, so I knew how to do the math, the testing just freaked me out. I took Princeton Review, got less worried about it, and scored much higher. Anyway. The SAT & such are totally unfair to people who panic & undergo severe brain freeze in that kind of testing environment. You should knock ETS & the BS around the test, rather than just kids taking review courses.


lyra (lyra), Tuesday, 9 March 2004 16:36 (twenty years ago) link

In my experience, the dumbest kids at school were the richest ones

Really? Not in my experience. Being rich might make you a lot of things, but no more likely to be dumb than poor (dumb) people. I knew a lot of really smart people in college who were maddeningly rich too. In fact, almost all the people I knew at college were really smart. It was hard to find a dumb person. My roommate was a chemical abusing depressive grateful dead listening to jerk sometimes, but he also had read the Odyssey in Greek before coming to college. And he was from the South. And now is a PhD prof. at a biz school. But not rich then. It was a struggle for me to get through college, financially. But it was worth it.

Skottie, Tuesday, 9 March 2004 16:47 (twenty years ago) link

one of the smartest people i ever knew (a princeton economics ph.d) came from a very rich, noble family. he was also a completely insufferable arrogant asshole whose academic successes only served to make an already dreadful personality even worse.

Eisbär (llamasfur), Tuesday, 9 March 2004 17:11 (twenty years ago) link

i just like to go to Harvard bar's and fuck up the smart kids.

Chris 'The Velvet Bingo' V (Chris V), Tuesday, 9 March 2004 17:14 (twenty years ago) link

Skottie, I didn't say that all dumb people were rich. I said that every dull person I knew in college was dull because they weren't accustomed to working / competing for what they had. Once they were in college, they weren't interested in their education because they were guaranteed a job after college. However, if you are poor and 'dumb' (I define 'dumb' as 'not taking advantage of every opportunity you have to educate yourself'), you wouldn't be in college in the first place.

And I did know a number of really dull people at college - they usually ended up in certain programs that were neither sciences nor humanities (I won't say for fear of offending anyone here who may have come out of similar programs).

It's no secret that the standards are lowered for legacy-type kids.

Kerry (dymaxia), Tuesday, 9 March 2004 17:16 (twenty years ago) link

Chris V. is my fwend.

Francis Watlington (Francis Watlington), Tuesday, 9 March 2004 18:24 (twenty years ago) link

I'm just looking at the stats from ETS - three-quarters of students at prestigious colleges/universities come from the top quarter, 3% come from the bottom quarter. ETS has no vested interest in playing class warrior.

That tells me that the education system and admissions process are geared toward the wealthy/ier among us. Which goes back to - what's the 'good' of a need-blind admissions process?

It's better than a system that denies admission to people who come from a poor background, yes. (But isn't that system the status quo, with the emphasis on test scores and extracurriculars, etc.?) But any system that gives 3% of the spots to the bottom quarter of incomes needs to be fixed.

I'd be interested to see an SAT/ACT breakdown by class, but I don't remember their paperwork asking about family income.

miloauckerman (miloauckerman), Tuesday, 9 March 2004 19:15 (twenty years ago) link


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