Why do you keep so many books (if you do)?

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Sara, my parents very mysteriously kept a tight lid on our TV & movie viewing (and music listening, if it comes to that) but NEVER THOUGHT TO SUPERVISE MY READING. Must have been some of those Victorian middle-class ideals at work, ie that anything in print was inherently worthy. Also, somehow fairy tales & legends & stories about magic were always taken as arguments for the mystical/unknowable and not as challenges to Christianity, so all in all it worked out very well. I'm so sorry to hear that your experience was otherwise.

Laurel (Laurel), Thursday, 1 February 2007 18:21 (seventeen years ago) link

Moving them sucks, but I do like reorganizing them when I get to the new place.

As for being book deprived, don't feel bad for me; now I am Totally Not. Plus my 8 year old is a much better reader than his nephew is, which I'm pretty sure has something to do with the fact that I keep all these books around and my sister doesn't (so I get to feel superior, and who doesn't secretly love that?!)

Lately all I want to do is let my kids watch tv, but they are both sick and driving me nuts right now. If I didn't have the tv (and the computer), I'd be locking myself in the bathroom to hide. With a book, probably.

Sara R-C (Sara R-C), Thursday, 1 February 2007 18:22 (seventeen years ago) link

Laurel, it wasn't so much that they were discouraging, just that they didn't care about it and couldn't see the point in owning them. The upside is that they never really knew what I was reading when I got older, so I got to read a lot of stuff that I'm sure they would not have approved of if they had realized the content.

Sara R-C (Sara R-C), Thursday, 1 February 2007 18:24 (seventeen years ago) link

Oh, okay! Hahah, yes, that latter effect is the real reason to cultivate bookwormism at a young age, before anyone gets suspicious.

Laurel (Laurel), Thursday, 1 February 2007 18:25 (seventeen years ago) link

Stephen King, Sidney Sheldon, and VC Andrews... lots of interesting stuff in there to keep a person reading... ;)

The surprising thing (or not?) is that it led to me loving awesome literature, too.

Sara R-C (Sara R-C), Thursday, 1 February 2007 18:26 (seventeen years ago) link

Yes, I discovered Anne McCaffrey in maybe 5th grade and kind of never went back to non-genre lit until long after college! How I got through required lit classes for Eng major...it is a mystery.jpg.

Laurel (Laurel), Thursday, 1 February 2007 18:29 (seventeen years ago) link

"i only hate my books when i have to pack and move them"

and yet i'll take my gazillion books over my gazillion records any day when it comes to moving.

scott seward (scott seward), Thursday, 1 February 2007 18:30 (seventeen years ago) link

my parents very mysteriously kept a tight lid on our TV & movie viewing (and music listening, if it comes to that) but NEVER THOUGHT TO SUPERVISE MY READING.

Likewise, though my father kept mentioning the possibility of forbidding certain comic books etc, and I was part of the generation-within-a-generation that wasn't allowed to play Dungeons and Dragons.

I believe in limiting and to some extent supervising television intake, depending on the kid's age (though I think it's key for children to enjoy things their parents find stupid), just not in doing so in favor of reading (past the age of "practice makes perfect"). Especially these days. My parents tried it at one point, but I was reading hundreds of books anyway and my brother has a learning disability, so a uniform policy was too tough to cobble together.

(My parents don't read, watch TV, watch movies, or listen to music, so in this case this stuff all came out of my father's suspicion of Evil Influence and my mother's New England eyebrow-raising at anything that Doesn't Serve Some Practical End.)

Tep (ktepi), Thursday, 1 February 2007 18:32 (seventeen years ago) link

1. If I don't own a book, I forget all about it, sometimes even that I read it.

2. Continued lust from an adolescence of looking into Manhattan brownstones where the walls were lined with endless curious tomes.

3. A tendency towards obscurer reading, and a tendency towards only buying things on sale, meaning if there's any chance I'll want to read a book someday, and I find it cheap enough, I'll grab it, because when that day comes, I will not be able to find it again.

Casuistry (Chris P), Thursday, 1 February 2007 18:32 (seventeen years ago) link

My parents don't read, watch TV, watch movies, or listen to music

Um. What exactly do they do for spare time?

Ned Raggett (Ned), Thursday, 1 February 2007 18:33 (seventeen years ago) link

Even if I rarely plan to re-read them, I also keep some books for sentimental reasons, or because I had to schlepp them all the way back from France, or because they're relatively rare or out of print, and because some of them I plan to lend or at least have on hand to lend.

M. White (Miguelito), Thursday, 1 February 2007 18:36 (seventeen years ago) link

Um. What exactly do they do for spare time?

My mother quilts and plays bridge, and town politics are sort of a spectator sport here. Sometimes she knits sweaters for upcoming birthdays. Bridge is kind of an indulgence, but it doesn't cost any money -- she's horrified at the number of movies I own. My father, well, he's got his own recreations. (He's Very Religious, along Pat Robertson type lines.)

Tep (ktepi), Thursday, 1 February 2007 18:37 (seventeen years ago) link

I've sold thousands of books. I've kept about 400 of them. Give me another decade and that figure may be closer to 500.

I keep the ones I keep because I like having them to open and read from. About 160 of them are volumes of poetry. About fifty are various reference works. The rest are just damn good books.

Aimless (Aimless), Thursday, 1 February 2007 18:39 (seventeen years ago) link

x-post -- Hey, keeps 'em happy...

Ned Raggett (Ned), Thursday, 1 February 2007 18:39 (seventeen years ago) link

and yet i'll take my gazillion books over my gazillion records any day when it comes to moving.

this is pretty much the reason why i have so little vinyl. freaks me out. feel like i need more stability for me n vinyl to happen.

rrrobyn, breeze blown meadow of cheeriness (rrrobyn), Thursday, 1 February 2007 18:41 (seventeen years ago) link

1. If I don't own a book, I forget all about it, sometimes even that I read it.

I have kept a running list of every book I've read since January of 1992. Seriously! This may seem obsessive, but sometimes I'll think of something from a book but won't remember where it came from - or need to figure out a title or author - and it really helps.

(I also have a running list of books I want to read, but that is so out of hand that it should never be discussed.)

Sara R-C (Sara R-C), Thursday, 1 February 2007 19:01 (seventeen years ago) link

30,000+ books = Frogm@n Henry's house =
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Edward Trifle (Ned Trifle IV), Friday, 2 February 2007 09:32 (seventeen years ago) link

Dribble

Frogm@n Henry (Frogm@n Henry), Friday, 2 February 2007 14:04 (seventeen years ago) link


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