I don't think it loses anything by being renamed to "newsmaker of the year" or whatever
― Simon H., Wednesday, December 6, 2017 2:57 PM (fifty-five minutes ago)
you guys will love MVP debates on ILH/ILB
― k3vin k., Wednesday, 6 December 2017 21:05 (six years ago) link
BREAK: Lorin Stein, the editor of the Paris Review, has resigned amid an investigation into his conduct with women https://t.co/mUELfZ9ai5— Sydney Ember (@melbournecoal) December 6, 2017
― mookieproof, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 21:47 (six years ago) link
omg are the bad literary men going to start toppling??? can't wait.
― horseshoe, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 21:51 (six years ago) link
Oof. They all fall down.
― Le Bateau Ivre, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 21:52 (six years ago) link
The board’s decision to review Mr. Stein’s behavior came after he informed board members that his name had appeared on a list created after the Harvey Weinstein scandal to anonymously crowdsource allegations of harassment and misconduct by men in publishing and media.
can you imag this meeting?
― horseshoe, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 21:53 (six years ago) link
franken will resign tomorrow, apparently
― mookieproof, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 21:54 (six years ago) link
I wish he would cling for his political life and fite
― Lyudmila Pavlichenko (dandydonweiner), Wednesday, 6 December 2017 22:05 (six years ago) link
why
― Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Wednesday, 6 December 2017 22:51 (six years ago) link
This was quite good on these 'confusing' times.
http://www.slate.com/articles/double_x/doublex/2017/12/where_is_the_line_between_office_flirtation_and_sexual_harassment.html
― xyzzzz__, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 22:57 (six years ago) link
― Lyudmila Pavlichenko (dandydonweiner), Wednesday, 6 December 2017 22:05 (one hour ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
posts, and the preposterous posters who post them
― imago, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 23:11 (six years ago) link
xp that article is a bit long-winded but not a bad story
― Nhex, Thursday, 7 December 2017 00:15 (six years ago) link
― imago, Wednesday, December 6, 2017 11:11 PM (yesterday) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
OTFM. Many posters here crying wolf about Franken. A person who harassed a woman. And the "such a shame, gud sentor, wish e'd fight!" posts are legion. Merely because they liked him as a politician/never expected it from him/such a shame/good guy/boy didna mean no 'arm.
Yeah, this is part of the problem people.
― Le Bateau Ivre, Thursday, 7 December 2017 00:24 (six years ago) link
yeehaw wahoo git r done am i rite fellers
― sleepingbag, Thursday, 7 December 2017 00:34 (six years ago) link
The question isn't "Why are Democrats acquiescing?" It's "Let's pulverize the GOP over this in the next year."
― morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 7 December 2017 00:34 (six years ago) link
How are you not still banned? xp
― Le Bateau Ivre, Thursday, 7 December 2017 00:34 (six years ago) link
posters have "forcibly tried" to ban me, it's true
― sleepingbag, Thursday, 7 December 2017 00:35 (six years ago) link
xp Same thing. Dems can, and should, pulverize the GOP without Al fucking Franken. It's up for grabs. There's a GOP monkey in the white house. It's on a silver platter, for the taking. You don't need a harasser to accomplish this great feat. A better monkey should suffice.
― Le Bateau Ivre, Thursday, 7 December 2017 00:37 (six years ago) link
I wish he would cling for his political life and fite― Lyudmila Pavlichenko (dandydonweiner), Wednesday, December 6, 2017 5:05 PM (two hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalinkwhy― Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Wednesday, December 6, 2017 5:51 PM (one hour ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
― Lyudmila Pavlichenko (dandydonweiner), Wednesday, December 6, 2017 5:05 PM (two hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
― Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Wednesday, December 6, 2017 5:51 PM (one hour ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
Sarcasm, sorry to disappoint.
― Lyudmila Pavlichenko (dandydonweiner), Thursday, 7 December 2017 00:37 (six years ago) link
He needs to go, but others have said it better than me.
― Lyudmila Pavlichenko (dandydonweiner), Thursday, 7 December 2017 00:38 (six years ago) link
― xyzzzz__, Wednesday, December 6, 2017 5:57 PM (yesterday) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
"Several women have written recently that they fear a coming backlash—that one false allegation against a famous man will bring this whole new reality crashing down, or that in the understandable urge to name names, women will be seen as the aggressors, out to tar every man’s reputation. I have those fears too, but I also fear the consequences of overcorrection, of the concept of harassment ballooning to include perfectly legitimate attempts at seduction—the initial touch, the scooting closer in the booth, the drunken sloppy first kiss, the occasional bad call or failed pass."
I worry about the combination of these things turning the whole movement into a tightrope walk. If just one major accusation comes out as verifiably false for some reason, or if too many accusations fall into that slippery slope overcorrection NBD category she mentions, it will give something that general management/HR/board members etc can point to when there is pressure to fire an accused member of their team. A lot of the accused are very important to their organizations in one way or another, but the current public pressure to cut ties is so great that it outweighs other options they have to deal with the situation that they might have preferred for the sake of their business. I feel like if just one major story was shown to be false all organizations would be able to say that it shows that going forward all the facts need to be internally investigated thoroughly before any rash decision is made. Then it just goes away and nothing happens. Companies are able to damage control by expressing concern and then letting it just fizzle out.
― Evan, Thursday, 7 December 2017 16:30 (six years ago) link
If just one major accusation comes out as verifiably false for some reason
If? The cultural right already keeps bringing up Duke lacrosse and the Rolling Stone frat thing as magical trump cards that should necessarily cause any legit accusation to fizzle, because if some people got it sorta wrong once then it's all suspect.
― didgeridon't (Ye Mad Puffin), Thursday, 7 December 2017 16:38 (six years ago) link
also too soon for hellscape projection imo
― weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 7 December 2017 16:39 (six years ago) link
I really wish you had used almost any other word aside from "monkey" here.
― Embalming is a flirty business (DJP), Thursday, 7 December 2017 16:40 (six years ago) link
I guess I'm thinking more about the accusations against a major figure in this case. Because those are the ones that companies/brands are more incentivized to protect or deflect.
― Evan, Thursday, 7 December 2017 16:42 (six years ago) link
― weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, December 7, 2017 11:39 AM (two minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
The article got me thinking about it
― Evan, Thursday, 7 December 2017 16:43 (six years ago) link
My mom just called to wobble on about all this being Democrats’ fault. I have 10 days of this shit coming up, heeeeellllp meeeeeeeee
― kim jong deal (suzy), Thursday, 7 December 2017 16:44 (six years ago) link
I can see the Breitbart/Cernovich/O'Keefe crowd trying to fabricate something, it's kind of a win/win for them - either they take down a political enemy or they cast doubt on all such accusations
― frogbs, Thursday, 7 December 2017 16:44 (six years ago) link
I predict within hours of Franken's (possible?) resignation the Moore campaign will run ads in Alabama to the effect of "we need people like Roy Moore in the senate to protect our women and children from confessed serial predators like Al Franken."
― Josh in Chicago, Thursday, 7 December 2017 16:46 (six years ago) link
I can see the Breitbart/Cernovich/O'Keefe crowd trying to fabricate something
They're way ahead of you on that task, of course. Just because they just got caught doing it badly doesn't mean they're going to stop trying. They will doubtless eventually get another serviceable zing-factory case study, and then drag everything to its level of tawdriness, whatever that level may be.
― didgeridon't (Ye Mad Puffin), Thursday, 7 December 2017 16:50 (six years ago) link
all organizations would be able to say that it shows that going forward all the facts need to be internally investigated thoroughly before any rash decision is made.
Well, they should be?
But so far all cases seem to have been clear cut or have overwhelming weight of numbers, or not have been disputed.
The stage where disputed accounts start to be countered, be that in courts (hard to see too many going this far, which is where the build-up of accusations comes from) or via media sympathetic to the side of those accused is where the slow and careful grind of cautious process might kick in.
It's hard to see things going back to how they were prior but it's also impossible to evaluate what might have actually changed until that's occurred I think.
― remember the lmao (darraghmac), Thursday, 7 December 2017 16:57 (six years ago) link
http://www.nydailynews.com/entertainment/ex-dj-sends-1-sacagawea-coin-payment-taylor-swift-article-1.3681861
Mueller previously told the AP he intended the coin featuring a prominent Native American woman as a final jab at the singer in a case her side called a win for all women
― Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Thursday, 7 December 2017 17:16 (six years ago) link
Maybe he thought Taylor Swift was Elizabeth Warren?
― Embalming is a flirty business (DJP), Thursday, 7 December 2017 17:17 (six years ago) link
you can't spend em anywhere!
― .oO (silby), Thursday, 7 December 2017 17:18 (six years ago) link
The vending machine at work gives dollar coins as change and accepts them, so I use them a lot.
― Embalming is a flirty business (DJP), Thursday, 7 December 2017 17:18 (six years ago) link
#changewecanbelievein
― Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Thursday, 7 December 2017 17:19 (six years ago) link
― remember the lmao (darraghmac), Thursday, December 7, 2017 11:57 AM (four minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
Of course it makes sense for them to verify, but I'm implying that they'd lean on this reasoning (even more) to delay action in the hopes it will fade away entirely. A citable example of a comparable false accusation would give them a window to now require more "hard" evidence than most accusers might be able to provide.
In the meantime the media would be flooded with jerks smugly saying "see this is why we say innocent until proven guilty told ya so" bringing the public consensus back the other direction, and the current pressure companies feel to take action swiftly would be a bit diminished at the very least.
― Evan, Thursday, 7 December 2017 17:30 (six years ago) link
id think (perhaps too optimistically) that in this new environment such a delay in action made in hopes that such matters would "fade away" could make organizations more susceptible to lawsuits
― marcos, Thursday, 7 December 2017 17:32 (six years ago) link
Yeah what Marcos said... the thing that will make companies take this more seriously is the fact that victims are feeling more emboldened to come forward opens these companies up to a much greater degree of liability
― Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Thursday, 7 December 2017 17:38 (six years ago) link
Not the same thing, but I doubt Cernovich's campaign against Sam Seder would have succeeded if not for the current climate
― President Keyes, Thursday, 7 December 2017 17:40 (six years ago) link
i don't think it minimizes the gravity or truth of the moment to suggest that the ratfuckers are almost certainly actively engaged in COINTELPRO style bullshit of this variety already
― Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Thursday, 7 December 2017 17:42 (six years ago) link
btw Sam Seder has been rehired by MSNBC
― ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 7 December 2017 17:50 (six years ago) link
Harold Ford, Jr.: https://www.yahoo.com/news/former-congressman-harold-ford-jr-173325565.html
― morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 7 December 2017 20:08 (six years ago) link
I don't know why I thought Ford Jr was run out of Congress for sexual misconduct. Maybe I am remembering third-hand rumors funneled through my wife's friends from high school.
― Embalming is a flirty business (DJP), Thursday, 7 December 2017 20:28 (six years ago) link
The hackiest of hacks – the one dude who couldn't win in a historic Democratic year because he thought it was 1996 and he could get away with opposing gay marriage and supporting intercession in the Terri Schiavo case.
― morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 7 December 2017 20:45 (six years ago) link
"Several women have written recently that they fear a coming backlash—that one false allegation against a famous man will bring this whole new reality crashing down, or that in the understandable urge to name names, women will be seen as the aggressors, out to tar every man’s reputation. I have those fears too, but I also fear the consequences of overcorrection, of the concept of harassment ballooning to include perfectly legitimate attempts at seduction—the initial touch, the scooting closer in the booth, the drunken sloppy first kiss, the occasional bad call or failed pass."I worry about the combination of these things turning the whole movement into a tightrope walk. If just one major accusation comes out as verifiably false for some reason, or if too many accusations fall into that slippery slope overcorrection NBD category she mentions, it will give something that general management/HR/board members etc can point to when there is pressure to fire an accused member of their team. A lot of the accused are very important to their organizations in one way or another, but the current public pressure to cut ties is so great that it outweighs other options they have to deal with the situation that they might have preferred for the sake of their business. I feel like if just one major story was shown to be false all organizations would be able to say that it shows that going forward all the facts need to be internally investigated thoroughly before any rash decision is made. Then it just goes away and nothing happens. Companies are able to damage control by expressing concern and then letting it just fizzle out.― Evan, Thursday, 7 December 2017 Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
― Evan, Thursday, 7 December 2017 Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
Its inevitable there will be a counter reaction/pushback of some sort.
This is a response to that piece:
https://newrepublic.com/article/146145/married-flirty-boss-what
Nhex said that the slate piece was "long-winded", which is very much true and is what The New Republic picks up on, effectively. It does labour on her own history. It does start with what's happening at The Paris Review which is quite a different case. The man at the centre of that has clearly abused his position with a variety of women whereas Allison's now husband didn't in the sense they married, had kids and he didn't go on to play around with others, nor abuse his position in anyway. In the Slate piece there are a couple of further anecdotes from friends depicting the overall atmosphere and multi-faceted interactions. Ultimately both writers found themselves in what could be seen as relationships that were inappropriate -- one with a happy outcome, one not. Both agree (in a roundabout way) that while places of work and study bring people together this isn't a site to exercise power over a person. The point in the end is to protect the powerless.
― xyzzzz__, Thursday, 7 December 2017 21:10 (six years ago) link
It does start with what's happening at The Paris Review which is quite a different case. The man at the centre of that has clearly abused his position with a variety of women whereas Allison's now husband didn't in the sense they married, had kids and he didn't go on to play around with others, nor abuse his position in anyway.
wtf is this distinction??? being promiscuous, adulterous.... these are not crimes iirc????????
― sleepingbag, Thursday, 7 December 2017 21:12 (six years ago) link
Op-Ed Dylan Farrow: Why has the #MeToo revolution spared Woody Allen?
― Le Bateau Ivre, Thursday, 7 December 2017 21:13 (six years ago) link
It isn’t just power that allows men accused of sexual abuse to keep their careers and their secrets. It is also our collective choice to see simple situations as complicated and obvious conclusions as a matter of “who can say”? The system worked for Harvey Weinstein for decades. It works for Woody Allen still.
― Le Bateau Ivre, Thursday, 7 December 2017 21:14 (six years ago) link
This needs more exclamation marks, son.
― xyzzzz__, Thursday, 7 December 2017 21:16 (six years ago) link
possible reasons:
one (family) accuser, based on the testimony of a then-child (and two of whose siblings have expressed doubt of her account)
the inability of most of us to hire an investigative team to determine if ***** or *** is crazier
xp
― ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 7 December 2017 21:19 (six years ago) link