http://www.france24.com/en/20180109-france-star-catherine-deneuve-defends-mens-right-chat-women-metoo-weinstein
― Ludo, Tuesday, January 9, 2018 3:23 PM (three hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
So disgusted by this, and so very not surprised.
― Van Horn Street, Wednesday, 10 January 2018 00:22 (six years ago) link
Gawker tended to punch up, if only slightly at times
― Simon H., Wednesday, 10 January 2018 00:34 (six years ago) link
Gawker had a fucked-up idea of 'up' (and as we don't know who the originator is, they may well have been genuinely 'up') and it would have brought a ton of clicks - they would certainly have done it if it wouldn't lose them Jezebel.
― Andrew Farrell, Wednesday, 10 January 2018 09:21 (six years ago) link
Also punching up isn't a real thing it's just your mates agreeing that it's OK when you do it
― remember the lmao (darraghmac), Wednesday, 10 January 2018 10:08 (six years ago) link
your mates agreeing that it's OK when you do it isn't a real thing
― conrad, Wednesday, 10 January 2018 10:39 (six years ago) link
xp then why isn't ridiculing a head of state as bad as ridiculing a homeless person who asks for money? whats the logic if its not relative power
― ogmor, Wednesday, 10 January 2018 10:41 (six years ago) link
Beg a q much?
― remember the lmao (darraghmac), Wednesday, 10 January 2018 10:47 (six years ago) link
remember the lmao would like to suggest that perhaps ridiculing a head of state is not good and perhaps ridiculing a homeless person is good
― conrad, Wednesday, 10 January 2018 10:52 (six years ago) link
I considered throwing an if in there but thought that would be insulting
― ogmor, Wednesday, 10 January 2018 10:54 (six years ago) link
XP he would not but keep trying and crying
― remember the lmao (darraghmac), Wednesday, 10 January 2018 10:56 (six years ago) link
are you going to say what you think or should we just be ignoring all these interjections entirely
― ogmor, Wednesday, 10 January 2018 10:59 (six years ago) link
new thread?
― conrad, Wednesday, 10 January 2018 11:02 (six years ago) link
Recommend the latter XP
Non xp yes
― remember the lmao (darraghmac), Wednesday, 10 January 2018 11:03 (six years ago) link
I'm interrupting my break for one tweet only, so take a screenshot: I created the shitty men in media list. You don't need to doxx me, just head to my Instagram account, it's easy to find out where I hang out if you want to say hi.— Lexi Alexander (@Lexialex) January 10, 2018
― mookieproof, Wednesday, 10 January 2018 23:01 (six years ago) link
yeah other people have been i am spartacusing this all day
― maura, Thursday, 11 January 2018 00:05 (six years ago) link
WaPo reporter Joel Achenbach once wrote that Hillary Clinton "needs a radio-controlled shock collar so that aides can zap her when she starts to get screechy."He was just suspended for 'inappropriate workplace conduct.'Noticing a pattern yet...?https://t.co/cLtJu3upUZ— Caroline O. (@RVAwonk) January 10, 2018
― Monster fatberg (Phil D.), Thursday, 11 January 2018 00:09 (six years ago) link
Rep. Courtney Rogers, R-Goodlettsville, said women have a "responsibility" to maintain their own decorum."I've had female lobbyists walk into my office dressed in such a manner that I had to fight the urge to laugh," Rogers said, adding that's been the case for "some of our younger interns."
― Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Thursday, 11 January 2018 03:27 (six years ago) link
hey, question: the #metoo #timesup nthwave feminist movement has certainly outgrown fuckin' weinstein; can/could we start a new thread that isn't predicated on that guy to discuss this stuff moving forward?
― Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Thursday, 11 January 2018 03:28 (six years ago) link
good idea!! go ahead if you feel the power move you
― Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 11 January 2018 03:33 (six years ago) link
by gosh i think i do
― Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Thursday, 11 January 2018 03:42 (six years ago) link
Fourth Wave Feminism - General Discussion Thread
― Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Thursday, 11 January 2018 03:45 (six years ago) link
Heard about James Rosen of Fox on the way home today.
https://www.npr.org/2018/01/10/577093288/top-fox-news-d-c-reporter-james-rosen-left-network-after-harassment-claims
― nickn, Thursday, 11 January 2018 04:17 (six years ago) link
ok so is this thread now just the dumping ground for accused rapists
― flappy bird, Thursday, 11 January 2018 05:55 (six years ago) link
not to split hairs but "fourth wave feminism" feels like a different topic than "rich and powerful men accused sexual assault discuss them here"
― illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Thursday, 11 January 2018 08:33 (six years ago) link
Bit of a headline fail TBH.
― kim jong deal (suzy), Thursday, 11 January 2018 09:34 (six years ago) link
Great piece from the person who actually started the shitty media men list:
https://www.thecut.com/2018/01/moira-donegan-i-started-the-media-men-list.html
― xyzzzz__, Thursday, 11 January 2018 11:36 (six years ago) link
This escalated when I learned Katie Roiphe would be publishing my name in a forthcoming piece in Harper’s magazine. In early December, Roiphe had emailed me to ask if I wanted to comment for a Harper’s story she was writing on the “feminist moment.”
Nice
― Chuck_Tatum, Thursday, 11 January 2018 14:14 (six years ago) link
Probably last TV appearance:
http://deadline.com/2018/01/james-franco-seth-meyers-take-knocks-ally-sheedy-sexual-misconduct-1202240604/
― ... (Eazy), Thursday, 11 January 2018 14:40 (six years ago) link
https://www.facebook.com/OfficialElizaDushku/posts/1769957739689557
When I was 12 years old, while filming “True Lies”, I was sexually molested by Joel Kramer, one of Hollywood’s leading stunt coordinators.
― ... (Eazy), Saturday, 13 January 2018 18:37 (six years ago) link
ugh god that is gutwrenching fuck
― Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 13 January 2018 18:59 (six years ago) link
the part where she talks about suffering an injury on set shortly thereafter...fucking hell
― omar little, Saturday, 13 January 2018 19:00 (six years ago) link
yeahand there’s no way he hasn’t done the same with other girls throughout his career. it’s so awful & sickening. and it’s true that he has worked consistently - he was stunt coordinator on Blade Runner 2049 ffs
― Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 13 January 2018 19:09 (six years ago) link
fYI the 'shitty media men' list is on youtube, though you have to listen to some choad walk you through it person by person and misprounce places like "the Baffler" as "the baffier". a couple of surprising and familiar names on there to anyone on ilx.
― akm, Saturday, 13 January 2018 20:05 (six years ago) link
I heard about one of them
― omar little, Saturday, 13 January 2018 20:09 (six years ago) link
Male Models Say Mario Testino and Bruce Weber Sexually Exploited Them
― morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 13 January 2018 20:33 (six years ago) link
yeah ugh i read that this morningmodelling is such a cesspool for that kind of behaviour, and male modelling even more so. it’s great that they are starting to speak out, especially against such heavy hitters like Weber & Testino
― Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 13 January 2018 20:38 (six years ago) link
Also, some good/provocative thoughts from Margaret Atwood:
https://www.theglobeandmail.com/opinion/am-i-a-bad-feminist/article37591823/
― ... (Eazy), Saturday, 13 January 2018 21:21 (six years ago) link
margaret atwood's thing is a fucking travesty and a direct insult to the survivors of a toxic culture in Canada's in writing programs
― sean gramophone, Saturday, 13 January 2018 21:30 (six years ago) link
Is that the thing she’s describing, or her article just posted?
― Andrew Farrell, Sunday, 14 January 2018 09:09 (six years ago) link
“I went on a date with Aziz Ansari. It turned into the worst night of my life” https://babe.net/2018/01/13/aziz-ansari-28355
― flappy bird, Sunday, 14 January 2018 13:30 (six years ago) link
I thought the Atwood piece was fine, she’s not wrong about extremism and vigilante justice. I don’t know about the UBC situation but she didn’t attack the victim, she criticized the administration and many others’ “guilty until proven innocent” attitude.
― flappy bird, Sunday, 14 January 2018 13:33 (six years ago) link
But Aziz Ansari isn’t an 18-year-old. He’s a 34-year-old actor and comedian of global renown
I guess that's why comics' stage persona is called AN ACT?
― ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 14 January 2018 15:23 (six years ago) link
aziz also fashions himself as a “relatable” expert on love and dating.
― maura, Sunday, 14 January 2018 15:56 (six years ago) link
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/23453112the elevation of comedians into experts on humanity has been pretty bad for society
― maura, Sunday, 14 January 2018 15:57 (six years ago) link
golden globes really dropping the... uh... globes
― AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Sunday, 14 January 2018 16:40 (six years ago) link
maura otm. Reminds me of something Norm Macdonald said: “Calling comedians modern day philosophers must be really insulting to... modern day philosophers.”
― flappy bird, Sunday, 14 January 2018 16:56 (six years ago) link
tbf lots of modern day philosophers are also sex criminals
― The Bridge of Ban Louis J (silby), Sunday, 14 January 2018 17:00 (six years ago) link
Comedians are good at observations but not necessarily advice
― Evan, Sunday, 14 January 2018 17:32 (six years ago) link
UBC did handle their inquiry poorly, but Atwood's article is misrepresenting the open letter she signed, which had zero sympathy for victims.
― while my dirk gently weeps (symsymsym), Sunday, 14 January 2018 17:52 (six years ago) link
The following statement is from Signatory Margaret Atwood and was drafted with input and guidance from UBC Student Elaine Corden.We’re sorry we hurt any survivor people out there by seeming lacking in empathy for your experiences. Our letter was not intended to wound you, but it seems to have done, and for that we apologize. We do not intend to discourage anyone from speaking up in future, and hope the University will put in place a workable support system. To survivors of abuse, we were, are, and will be your allies.Sincerely,Margaret Atwood
Sincerely,
Margaret Atwood
I really do not see an attack on the victim whatsoever.
― Van Horn Street, Sunday, 14 January 2018 19:22 (six years ago) link