troye sivan "my my my!" -- 'one of the first great songs of this young year' or overpraised twink mediocrity??

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It's a step up from his old stuff.

self-clowning oven (Murgatroid), Friday, 12 January 2018 04:18 (six years ago) link

it's ok but i'm convinced there's some recent scandipop? song that's near identical but i can't place it at the moment

Tove Lo's "Cool Girl".

LeRooLeRoo, Friday, 12 January 2018 04:24 (six years ago) link

the only song i'd heard of his that wasn't in-one-ear-out-the-other for me was "youth", which i thought was okay sometimes and completely execrable at others. so yes it's a step up.

dyl, Friday, 12 January 2018 04:39 (six years ago) link

yeah i'm passing that up to it just being extremely on-trend to the point of feeling anonymous. i like it more than "cool girl" but it's not anything special

ufo, Friday, 12 January 2018 04:41 (six years ago) link

Yeah alright but how did the phrase “overpraised twink mediocrity” make it past the workshopping phase here

You're all losing so many points on your progress bars (Champiness), Friday, 12 January 2018 10:57 (six years ago) link

Troy is not spelt with an 'e', do keep up.

Shitpost in Opposition (King Boy Pato), Friday, 12 January 2018 12:02 (six years ago) link

tro-ye

#TeamHailing (imago), Friday, 12 January 2018 12:05 (six years ago) link

tro-ye to spell

Shitpost in Opposition (King Boy Pato), Friday, 12 January 2018 12:06 (six years ago) link

Meh Meh Meh

iCloudius (cryptosicko), Friday, 12 January 2018 15:18 (six years ago) link

(strobing effects aside, though, the video is laudable for its unapologetic queerness)

iCloudius (cryptosicko), Friday, 12 January 2018 15:19 (six years ago) link

i like this song... the video is really funny tho. he looks like 19 year old nick carter had gotten cryogenically unfrozen 5 mins before the video shoot and just started hitting michael jackson poses out of muscle memory

J0rdan S., Friday, 12 January 2018 17:21 (six years ago) link

His resemblance to Nick Carter (or just any random 90s boy band blonde in general) is a big part of what makes the video so interesting, for the sole reason that I am now imagining the impact that it would have had if any of the 80s or 90s boy band thinks had been this conscious of, and pandering to, their gay audience back then. Impossible to imagine then, the praise that Sivan is receiving now (I just happened to read about it on NPR before I saw that Pitchfork was all over it as well) is a sign of...something.

All of that said, I still hope he has some stronger material in him.

iCloudius (cryptosicko), Friday, 12 January 2018 18:36 (six years ago) link

this could have been great if the bridge wasn't so nothingy

ufo, Saturday, 13 January 2018 11:53 (six years ago) link

Troye Sivan is such an interesting character! I first became aware of his existence back in 2010 because my guitarist was giggling about this video that a "boy soprano" made where the lyrics went:

Yesterday I heard the news
That 4 million Russian children are homeless
They've been abandoned by the people they trust
Now their cold and lonely lives are hopeless

Children of the world
Are dying
People say they care
They're lying
If this life was theirs
They'd be crying
Is it really fair
We're not trying?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pkvdcFYFVpk

And so of course I followed him on Twitter. Me and my guitarist sang "For Them" with new lyrics all the time and giggled. "Shrimp of the world / are FRYING / people say they care / they're DINING" lol

At a certain point Troye noticed I'd followed him and DM'd me enthusiastically about it and that was nice. Over the next four years tho his Twitter account kind of.. educated me, I guess? about "teenagers coming up in the 2010s". He seemed so embarrassingly thirsty, tweeting at Cody Simpson and Justin Bieber and whatever. He had a part in a Wolverine movie and some other strange South African-tax rebate John Cleese movie. He posted the occasional song and I listened and thought it was unambitious.

But yeah then he became Youtube-famous. He did that thing where he put out an album and unfollows everybody on Twitter and refollows people to match his brand (I didn't make the cut). He came out of the closet and then was on Ellen. He probably faked some nudes leaking in a thirsty con game. I kind of ruefully read some article a couple years ago in the New York Times (I think) talking about how he did a gig at Le Poisson Rouge that had an audience entirely of teenage girls and John Norris. And then I started hearing him at the gym, and he's bffs with Hari Nef, and now he's got Best New Track on Pitchfork.

So is it really “overpraised twink mediocrity”?

Because I think it's more like he is exactly the ne plus ultra of twink mediocrity, and it's not really his fault, he's just the exact product of the systems that I've spent the last week typing about re: Call Me By Your Name etc., this is the sanitized face of gay male beauty, etc. The song is fine but it doesn't matter

flamboyant goon tie included, Saturday, 13 January 2018 16:33 (six years ago) link

I feel like 2018 is going to be the year of "overpraised twink mediocrity."

iCloudius (cryptosicko), Saturday, 13 January 2018 17:28 (six years ago) link

It's definitely been the year that I've spent two hours a day typing about it

I think what I’ve been struggling with (for years) is, really, the intersection between “good music” and “a sexy image”. I have never really “got” the appeal of boybands (or in many cases, girlbands) because I watch porn when I want to look at hot bodies and penetration, and I listen to music when I want to be aurally stimulated. Unless there’s a part of the video where Niall literally tops Louis then what is the point of listening to this band, watching their video? Never really understood it.

It’s different obviously with any scenario involving POC because it feels as if the “sexy image” is itself an act of decolonizing typically white-focused notions of sexiness and feels necessary

Or that Peaches video “Rub” which is perfect in every way

But with Troye Sivan— “my youth, my youth, my youth is yours”— I just can’t get past the fact that there is NO thesis here, except to hold the gaze of women and gay men, and to re-affirm that young white male bodies carry such currency that they can and will rule the world of music (Troye’s new track) cinema (Call Me By Your Name— Vogue has even called Timothée Chalemet “this season’s It girl”) and so on

The feeling I have isn’t quite bitterness (though sure I’m bitter) but also more like.. concerned. I didn’t like Ryan McGinley the first time around, and I guess I thought that the vapidity of Tumblr-stardom (I have become a successful artist because I take basic photos of my attractive friends) wouldn’t prevail as weirdly as it seems to be prevailing

And there’s a difference, now, too. Gay white men in North American are in a position now where they are no longer oppressed, and yet we’re still giving them the keys to our safety deposit boxes as if they are oppressed.

flamboyant goon tie included, Saturday, 13 January 2018 17:32 (six years ago) link

I'm not sure if I agree with "no longer oppressed." At the very least, how we define "oppression" needs some unpacking. Certainly, gay white men of a certain age, class, etc are privileged in a way that other queer people will never experience.

I'm currently in the middle of my PhD dissertation on queer characters in Young Adult Fiction, and wouldn't you know it, said characters tend to be overwhelmingly gay white male twinks (with some notable exceptions: Brian Francis' Fruit features an overweight protagonist who is, tellingly, less well adjusted than your typical GWM character; Charles Rice-Gonzales' Chulito is about a Latin American teen in the South Bronx that, thinking back on it, now feels like a bit of a template for Moonlight). But yeah, we are definitely reaching a point where "overpraised twink mediocrity" has the advantage of both being what many gay men want to consume and what many hetero critics feel comfortable praising. Not to keep bringing this back to CMBYN, but the fact that I found it so ordinary really is what surprised me the most about it. It's hard to call Moonlight underrated in comparison, because it was last year's BP winner and all, but the fawning over it from gay circles was nothing compared to what CMBYN, and Timothée Chalamet ("this seasons IT girl," ugh), are receiving.

To bring this thread back to its ostensible subject, it will be interesting to see how Sivan's career plays out during 2018. Like, is this really something that the music press is going to be all over, or is he benefitting from being the first thing to happen in music in 2018 (besides a crap Timberlake single)?

iCloudius (cryptosicko), Saturday, 13 January 2018 18:06 (six years ago) link

He's playing the L.A. game so he'll do the usual cycle of festival appearances, I think.

"Are no longer oppressed" is simplifying it, yes. What is interesting to me is hearing that North American teenagers are now identifying so easily with non-straight labels that the GSAs that we were fighting for in Catholic schools eight years ago are now no longer relevant. But: the historical oppression of white gay men seems to be, now, a useful tool for privileged white gay men to create drama or systems of injustice where there are none, idk, it's complicated obv and I'm just typing, something something Sam Smith please stop talking like that

"overpraised twink mediocrity" has the advantage of both being what many gay men want to consume and what many hetero critics feel comfortable praising

Clocked, yep.

flamboyant goon tie included, Saturday, 13 January 2018 18:55 (six years ago) link

fgti your posts in the call me by your name thread (i don't post in ile but read it sometimes) are basically what encouraged me to use the phrase in this thread title. like obviously i was being jokey but only somewhat.

i didn't realize sivan had such a history! that "for them" song is hilarious. i figured he had just gotten famous via tumblr-tweens liking his face enough to make his vlogs popular or something, had no idea he was that intentional about it/thirsty for it. (i don't know what he actually posted on youtube, for all i know he might have gotten famous for surprise egg videos altho i presume it had something to do with singing.)

yes we are definitely at a point where media gatekeepers do seem to really want to see more out-of-the-closet queer people (or representations of queer people) in the spotlight, but where the range of queer people that they are actually comfortable pushing in front of the curtain is still woefully narrow. and we end up with this bizarre climate of excitement around art that is, at least in my view, not quite there? (tangential, but i liked-not-loved call me by your name.)

the p4k review praising this song upthread ends with "'I’m just trying to show people that you can be queer, live your life, and be happy,' Sivan told Teen Vogue last year. Mission accomplished." and i struggle to understand what it is about this song that is supposedly accomplishing this mission. it's like we're meant to feel inspired by his mere existence and the fact that his gayness hasn't prevented him from getting a not-bad song released, pushed to radio, and prominently hyped via spotify billboards. like, is that all? some mission.

dyl, Saturday, 13 January 2018 21:19 (six years ago) link

oh and to be clear, i think it's bad at all that songs by queer artists can be thematically run-of-the-mill and artistically mediocre and still generate palpable excitement -- it's what straight artists do all the time. in fact, it would truly be lovely if queer artists could routinely make mediocre art and not experience their queerness as a barrier to favorable reception. but so far the scenario seems to be, well, your queerness isn't a barrier and might even be an asset, but only if you tick every single one of these other boxes that have basically been advantages from the dawn of mass media onward.

dyl, Saturday, 13 January 2018 21:41 (six years ago) link

* don't think it's bad at all lol

dyl, Saturday, 13 January 2018 21:58 (six years ago) link

OTM, yeah. This all has opened up so many cans of worms for me (and so much unbridled vitriol) that the lesson I learned this week is that I should really channel this anger into fuel for my own work I guess

flamboyant goon tie included, Saturday, 13 January 2018 22:55 (six years ago) link

i would pay hella USD's for your angry political music

Men's Scarehouse - "You're gonna like the way you're shook." (m bison), Saturday, 13 January 2018 22:56 (six years ago) link

ha lol I feel like my music is way angrier than people think but anyway thanks

[redacted addendum about how this is the future that Grizzle Bear's "Two Weeks" warned us about: "always / sometimes / easy / time"]

flamboyant goon tie included, Sunday, 14 January 2018 01:11 (six years ago) link

i had no idea about any of this context but i was pleasantly surprised when i heard this song, felt like something more substantial than everything else i discovered trawling through the generic tropi-pop youtube algorithm playlists

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Monday, 15 January 2018 00:22 (six years ago) link

i'll cop to having eventually quite enjoyed Sivan's first album, Blue Neighbourhoods.

in a similar way to the Years & Years album, it initially struck me as middle of the road pop and slowly grew on me until it wormed its way into my head. his voice suits the slick vaguely melancholy pop brooding.

there's also an overwrought ballad that's apparently about grappling with one's queerness in the context of a religious family/Jewish day school etc.?

anyway, 'My My My' is dancier and more upbeat and more anonymous but far more on-trend and more likely to actually be successful. it's a relatively good pop song, and it will probably get more attention than it otherwise would for the video, but i'm not sure if it's really worth handwringing over a la Call Me By Your Name.

no longer in MTL (Alex in Montreal), Monday, 15 January 2018 02:04 (six years ago) link

like, the white mediocrity of Call Me By Your Name is notable because it's presented as deep, meaningful art with something to say.

'My My My' seems to aspire to be a run of the mill or better than average pop song, you know? it doesn't have a thesis about queerness, but...i'm perfectly fine with Fifth Harmony songs not having a thesis either.

this isn't going to get the sort of critical acclaim that Frank Ocean does, and unless he's getting a much bigger push than I'd expect, he's pretty much going to be a Charli xcx-level pop singer who occasionally hits the pop charts, but mostly is popular on the internet, no? one BNM for a single feels kind of premature as a basis for predicting that the music press is going to be all over him

no longer in MTL (Alex in Montreal), Monday, 15 January 2018 02:12 (six years ago) link

cf. as a point of comparison Hayley Kiyoko's 'Curious', which similarly is a pretty traditional pop song whose only really notable difference is that the singer is a lesbian.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YXTzMOmmEfE

no longer in MTL (Alex in Montreal), Monday, 15 January 2018 02:26 (six years ago) link

would I prefer for MNEK to finally blow up into a massive pop star in 2018? absolutely.
do I prefer these to 2010's wave of vague inspirational songs dedicated to gay teens by presumptively straight pop stars? also, yes.
do I prefer them to 2013's Macklemore raps about marriage equality song? also, yes.

no longer in MTL (Alex in Montreal), Monday, 15 January 2018 02:31 (six years ago) link

We are definitely in a better place with this than we were with the Great Gay Pander-Offs of 2010 and 2013, yes.

iCloudius (cryptosicko), Monday, 15 January 2018 02:39 (six years ago) link

also, halsey and kehlani are both queer too, right? i feel like in general we've seen a quiet rise of a bunch of out queer pop singers in the past few years. i'm sure there are a few more i'm forgetting.

no longer in MTL (Alex in Montreal), Monday, 15 January 2018 02:45 (six years ago) link

i was wondering if the hayley kiyoko song would be brought up! that is another song that, aside from the playful use of the title word, i would also call "not quite there". but alas it too is getting pushed to radio and altho i haven't read it i saw someone post a billboard thinkpiece about how she and troye are 'boldly' normalizing queer affection in the mainstream or something

i would agree that what we are getting now is indeed preferable to the aforementioned phases. also that phase where that awful underwear-model-turned-country-singer steve grand was generating huffpo hype thru his mere ability to release a completely bland song/video centered on same-sex desire (which incidentally was heavy on the thinly-coded white-worship). (at least hopefully that's over now -- wouldn't be surprised if gay media were still talking about him tho lol.)

it's true that neither sivan nor kiyoko is going to receive the level of acclaim of e.g. frank ocean (whose good graces with music media predated his coming out but still). and i actually like quite a few things about this song! it is kinda catchy and the interplay between the production and his vocal lines at the beginning of the second verse is fun and hits the spot. but idk i just get disappointed when i see media takes, in whatever volume, that suggest that some social barrier is finally being destroyed by otherwise unchallenging art's existence.

dyl, Monday, 15 January 2018 03:07 (six years ago) link

i believe they both are xp, and halsey's latest hit does make it pretty clear. it's my favorite of the few songs i've heard by her, altho it seems a number of ppl here aren't feeling it based on posts in other threads

dyl, Monday, 15 January 2018 03:10 (six years ago) link

Didn't know about Halsey (not a fan) or Kehlani (don't know enough to have an opinion). I just wish Shura would become a beneficiary of all this.

iCloudius (cryptosicko), Monday, 15 January 2018 03:12 (six years ago) link

yeah both kehlani & halsey have released songs which are directly queer in their lyrics recently
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e3hjpNuvapQ
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_wVB6pfWwnE

ufo, Monday, 15 January 2018 03:15 (six years ago) link

i liked that brief period when the internet's "girl" was on r&b and adult r&b radio (not very high up on the playlists but still)

dyl, Monday, 15 January 2018 03:19 (six years ago) link

I don't mean to be hyperbolic or anything but even just the mention of Frank Ocean in this thread makes me feel so soothed and relaxed like "it's OK the world is full of beautiful things, you don't need to type anything negative this evening"

flamboyant goon tie included, Monday, 15 January 2018 04:28 (six years ago) link

but idk i just get disappointed when i see media takes, in whatever volume, that suggest that some social barrier is finally being destroyed by otherwise unchallenging art's existence.

i was wondering if the hayley kiyoko song would be brought up! that is another song that, aside from the playful use of the title word, i would also call "not quite there". but alas it too is getting pushed to radio and altho i haven't read it i saw someone post a billboard thinkpiece about how she and troye are 'boldly' normalizing queer affection in the mainstream or something

i mean, that article sounds tedious and wrong-headed. and yeah, media takes that overstate the impact of this stuff are probably annoying, but breathless overstated coverage of pop music is kind of...de rigeur.

the Kiyoko song is definitely all the way 'there' for me, though. I haven't paid any attention to her since we covered Girls Like Girls over at Singles Jukebox in 2015, which was definitely not quite there, and which made me write her off, but 'Curious' works for me. the beat is post-MustardWave but less minimalist, and the chorus is really smart about building momentum, from that initial touchyatouchyatouchyatouchya to the double-time patter of lines running together 'Did you takehimtothepierinSantaMonica' etc. and then the cleanly punctuated 'I'm just curious / Is it serious?'.

again, it's a completely typical pop song narrative, just written from a lesbian perspective, and...that's all it needs to be? i have plenty of other queer music that's actively political or angry or boundary pushing or experimental. there's nothing wrong with also having a Tinashe-style bop about Kiyoko's feelings when her ex-girlfriend makes out with some dude at a party.

no longer in MTL (Alex in Montreal), Monday, 15 January 2018 04:30 (six years ago) link

(anyway, sorry for taking us so off-topic)

no longer in MTL (Alex in Montreal), Monday, 15 January 2018 04:31 (six years ago) link

Years & Years use pop as a trojan horse for songs that capture the mix of shame, tentative fear and consuming lust that's unique to the experience of non-hetero early sexuality, the questioning of who you are and why you feel like that and recognising that it can be enjoyable as much as it can be terrifying. I also think they just write better songs and Olly Alexander is a proper popstar.

on the other hand this came on YouTube autoplay last night while I was tidying up and it just sounded like mediocre pop music from an uncharismatic singer? I played an earlier EP back when I first heard about him and it was just aural candy floss. The video makes it a bit more interesting but at the same time, I've met this guy/seen this aesthetic on Instagram/not replied to on Grindr, this exact archetype of gay man so many times.

Kehlani being on record about "Distraction" being about a woman, then having the video featuring her cavorting with a man, is exactly the kind of intersectional privilege issue that needs unpacked around discussion of queer oppression in pop spheres.

boxedjoy, Monday, 15 January 2018 11:15 (six years ago) link

for the sole reason that I am now imagining the impact that it would have had if any of the 80s or 90s boy band thinks had been this conscious of, and pandering to, their gay audience back then

in the UK we had Take That, who as far as I understand it only really had one hit single in America, the serious and chaste ballad "Back For Good", which to me has always felt like an outlier in their early narrative. They had a run of hits in the early 90s and were huge to the point that Robbie Williams leaving the group and the band splitting up were both national news stories and there was even a helpline set up. They reformed after about fifteen years apart and have occupied a safe space in pop since, sounding like Scissor Sisters and Coldplay at once.

so what was really interesting about Take That is that they were basically about taking a gay man's view of sexuality - specifically, manager Nigel Martin-Smith - and selling that persepctive to a female audience. Their 1991 debut single "Do What You Like" came with a video which is three minutes of four attractive guys (and Gary Barlow, who can sing but clearly recruited for his voice unlike the others), rolling about in leather and rubbing jelly on each other's shirtless bodies

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qpqAXZI0s0s

the single was a flop and even the band treat it as a punchline now. But move forward a few years to something like their number one single "Pray" which recasts "Wicked Game" with five men on a beach.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QbsAqs3YHyg

there's still a shameless fetishism to these men and their bodies and the sexuality of them. The song is better, the video is less cheap, but the intent is still there.

in the UK now this model still lives on. Pop stars and soap actors still do shirtless photoshoots for both gay mags and women's weeklies (at least, the ones that still survive). It's a world away from the 80s model of new romanticism, where Spandeau Ballet and Duran Duran were just as desireable but in a fully-clothed, fashion-and-style, repressed way.

boxedjoy, Monday, 15 January 2018 11:31 (six years ago) link

Googling 'Simon Le Bon shirt off' will get you LOTS of examples of him posing topless for 1980s pop mags.

Akdov Telmig (Ward Fowler), Monday, 15 January 2018 12:00 (six years ago) link

Good discussion, and, yeah, I'd wondered how Years & Years fit; to my ears they do it right.

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 15 January 2018 13:18 (six years ago) link

probably worth noting that halsey's newest single is a terrible duet with her gross boyfriend g-eazy called "him and i"

maura, Monday, 15 January 2018 14:39 (six years ago) link

they couldn't even get the grammar right!

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 15 January 2018 14:41 (six years ago) link

RIGHT???

maura, Monday, 15 January 2018 14:42 (six years ago) link

who did it better: halsey or zooey

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/She_%26_Him

algorithm is a dancer (katherine), Monday, 15 January 2018 14:56 (six years ago) link

Troye will be on SNL!

flamboyant goon tie included, Monday, 15 January 2018 15:14 (six years ago) link

i guess i read troye less as like... part of the "sanitized white gay into the mainstream" conspiracy and more as part of the "let's figure out how to upstream youtubers into mainstream pop culture" conspiracy. there's some crossover b/w those two things (connor franta etc) but frankly i'm more concerned about the second one personally & as such my interest in the "my my my" video is just noting what it might look like when a vlogger really tries to assert himself as society's very traditional understanding of a pop star. i find the video pretty clumsy and hard to watch, he's trying to sell it so hard but needs more practice. but i'm sure for the intended audience it works.

the other thing is that for all the praise about queer representation yada yada whatever i find it funny that troye and the guys in this video (who fwiw are styled acutely well) don't ever touch each other. the men kind of dance in place in the shadows, hovering around troye but never interacting with him. if they were caged the scene would represent a zoo, where foreign species can gaze at each other with interest but no danger. small step for queer kind and all that but i think there you really get a sense for how calculated this all is -- we can expose this audience to shirtless slightly older men, but there can be no touching -- and so i understand where the cynicism would start to creep in.

J0rdan S., Monday, 15 January 2018 16:43 (six years ago) link

yeah, the ultra-cynical take on this is "Jake/Logan Paul with good production"

algorithm is a dancer (katherine), Monday, 15 January 2018 17:08 (six years ago) link

it's funny how many of my gay guy friends whose relationship to pop music stays w/in the gay bubble are asking me about troye sivan now... once you start marketing your music strictly to gay guys it's prob not a good sign for your career as a pop musician

anyway i actually like this song ... the falsetto-y parts in the chorus are nice & are far more present than the chant-y parts

the 'in a dream' EP is really good so i'm looking forward to this album. i think he actually has good taste he's just not that dynamic of a singles artist


i think you’re right about the marketing thing but just want to note that Troye has been “marketing” his queerness since he came out in 2013– if one followed gay tumblr blogs in those days, he was inescapable.

butt dumb tight my boners got boners (the table is the table), Tuesday, 18 July 2023 02:03 (eight months ago) link

It’s interesting, I stand by everything that I typed about Troye upthread, but with “Rush” and hopefully with his subsequent songs/album I feel kind of owned? almost as if everything I previously expressed here was arrived at also by Troye and his team themselves and remedied with this song/video. Both are elevating and undeniably titillating, it feels like less of a commodification of the artist’s body/backstory and more of a celebration of a broader lifestyle/identity.

My enjoyment of Troye’s music has previously been coloured by a kind of camp appreciation but now I just feel bossed around and I love that.

flamboyant goon tie included, Tuesday, 18 July 2023 03:13 (eight months ago) link

and of course we don't have to say anything about how the years & years debut album threw the first brick at stonewall as far as "rush" is concerned.

Yeah the song feels very post-Y&Y to me, especially "Worship" (albeit that the shift in vocals for the chorus is inverted).

I was discussing with a friend who is into troye what we both thought about the song/video/reception-to-same.

I find the complaints about the video being a missed opportunity to highlight the diversity of "real" gay bodies a bit of a boring take, though not because they're wrong necessarily.

My friend made the point, which I think I agree with, that as titillating as the video is, it does feel pretty stage-managed, a calculated portrayal of the experience of going into a hyper-sexualised queer clubbing (and afters) environment, with little of the residual capacity for surprise and messiness that make those environments tempting to want to portray in the first place (though of course even the "real thing" suffers from this issue, just as each successive hit from a bottle of poppers is marginally less intoxicating).

But of course a carefully curated portrayal of "diverse" bodies would suffer from this problem even more, would feel even less connected to some semblance of real lived experience (by way of counter-example, I quite like the video for Calvin Harris's "Promises", and think it's great that it's centered around a black model with vitiligo, but the clip feels even less "real" to me than the clip for "Rush") - and perhaps made worse by the fact that troye is obviously a twink himself (and is always going to sit at the center of the video).

I wouldn't be surprised if the team behind the video clip discussed this a lot and decided that a video that leaned into blanket-twink-glorification was the lesser of two evils - it does feel like a reasonable stab at capturing the spirit of that scene (which, sure, is pretty body-totalitarian) - albeit that it doesn't really give me Sircuit vibes!

Tim F, Tuesday, 18 July 2023 05:07 (eight months ago) link

"Rush" is serviceable, I guess, and I'd dance to it, but when he slips into a euphoric mood I don't believe him. He's better at approximating the melancholy of Sufjan Stevens' non-diegetic Call Me By Your Name music.

the dreaded dependent claus (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 18 July 2023 09:30 (eight months ago) link

i would rather never have sex again than listen to Sufjan Stevens’ sappy pablum from CMBYN. Awful music.

The obvious jokes about the video are somewhat boring, imo, but that’s also because I like twinks lol. Also disputable as to whether Troye is still a twink, as he’s nearly 28 years old. His look is twinky but that might just be the Marfan syndrome on display.

butt dumb tight my boners got boners (the table is the table), Tuesday, 18 July 2023 11:30 (eight months ago) link

All I meant was that Sivan's "Seventeen" struck me as a better CMBYN-inspired song and performance than Stevens' contributions.

the dreaded dependent claus (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 18 July 2023 12:00 (eight months ago) link

i would rather never have sex again than listen to Sufjan Stevens’ sappy pablum from CMBYN. Awful music.

I mentioned this video earlier ("Fast Slow Disco" is the name; I'd forgotten it before). I think it's better than the Troye, but I'm happy living in a world where both can exist.

niall horanburger (cryptosicko), Tuesday, 18 July 2023 14:55 (eight months ago) link

My friend made the point, which I think I agree with, that as titillating as the video is, it does feel pretty stage-managed, a calculated portrayal of the experience of going into a hyper-sexualised queer clubbing (and afters) environment, with little of the residual capacity for surprise and messiness that make those environments tempting to want to portray in the first place (though of course even the "real thing" suffers from this issue, just as each successive hit from a bottle of poppers is marginally less intoxicating).

i was re-reading this thread from when "my my my" came out & i posted about how the video had this odd zoological quality where troye and all the shirtless muscle guys were gazing at each other but never touching. so "rush" is a progression insofar as there is skin on skin contact. but the video as a piece of art unto itself is pretty muddled -- it's gesturing at gay clubs, but also summer camps, and frat hazing, and some, like, ballet studio dance practice? there's a part about halfway thru where he's drinking a beer and grinding on another shirtless twink but then they separate into a choreographed dance that includes troye kicking his legs out to the side in his jaunty fashion like he's a leprechaun?

the body diversity debate feels like someone pressed one of 4 buttons on the gay twitter machine so i just don't find it interesting but the styling is curious to me insofar as we see troye in a jock but while wearing some sort of like crotchless chaps that let us know he's wearing a jock but he's framed in a way that doesn't show any bulge. we see some hint of his ass but not his full ass, tho we do see full extra ass. i have to assume it wasn't troye's choice to not show his own ass, tho perhaps i'm wrong. in the era of lil nas x, olly from years & years doing photoshoots in a versace jock etc the notion that the world can't handle troye sivan's bulge or bare ass feels a bit ridiculous

J0rdan S., Tuesday, 18 July 2023 16:40 (eight months ago) link

we see some hint of his ass but not his full ass, tho we do see full extra ass

i just had to highlight this because it's amusing.

ꙮ (map), Tuesday, 18 July 2023 16:51 (eight months ago) link

like, when he unlocks his privates for you but he wants to make sure you know he's a "top."

ꙮ (map), Tuesday, 18 July 2023 16:57 (eight months ago) link

i mean i ain’t gonna lie, i find a bit of crack or crown gets me much more excited than FULL ASS, at least in a cultural context, but maybe that’s just me.

butt dumb tight my boners got boners (the table is the table), Tuesday, 18 July 2023 17:29 (eight months ago) link

Sivan's career consists of a bit of crack or crown.

the dreaded dependent claus (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 18 July 2023 17:30 (eight months ago) link

i would rather never have sex again than listen to Sufjan Stevens’ sappy pablum from CMBYN. Awful music.

recut the last scene with 'visions of Gideon/is it a video'? replaced by 'oh, my genitals/i'm a janitor' imo

Deflatormouse, Tuesday, 18 July 2023 18:09 (eight months ago) link

my intergluteal cleft is bleeding

ꙮ (map), Tuesday, 18 July 2023 18:14 (eight months ago) link

Sivan's career consists of a bit of crack or crown.


This isn’t fair, cmon

butt dumb tight my boners got boners (the table is the table), Tuesday, 18 July 2023 19:11 (eight months ago) link

three weeks pass...

there's an official extended mix streamable now but i feel like at 3:36 it's still like half as long as it should be?

dyl, Friday, 11 August 2023 00:24 (eight months ago) link

one month passes...

“Got Me Started” is the new single. I think it’s okay on first listen tho the melodic line that comes in during the chorus is wild familiar, can’t place it though.

butt dumb tight my boners got boners (the table is the table), Wednesday, 20 September 2023 16:53 (six months ago) link

you mean the "shooting stars" sample? it's very funny here, just a completely different vibe to the rest of the song

song is pretty nice though

ufo, Wednesday, 20 September 2023 23:18 (six months ago) link

Yeah the sample feels a bit on the nose in an Australian context, though I guess deliberately and unashamedly so, and as such it sort of fits with the general 'twink in a Balenciaga t-shirt' vibe Troye is generally going for right now

Tim F, Wednesday, 20 September 2023 23:25 (six months ago) link

it's quite strange because it's a very four-to-the-floor filter house sample but the song is breezy 2-step

ufo, Wednesday, 20 September 2023 23:45 (six months ago) link

lol see this is how little i know about this sort of thing— i know that shooting stars song and have heard it many many times but had no idea what it was or what it was called cuz it has generic bar song all over it

butt dumb tight my boners got boners (the table is the table), Thursday, 21 September 2023 00:25 (six months ago) link

it was a minor hit here before really blowing up years later as a meme internationally

ufo, Thursday, 21 September 2023 00:39 (six months ago) link

it got a lot of play in whatever hipstro clubs I was going to when it came out stateside like alongside classixx and treasure fingers and these sorts of things

xheugy eddy (D-40), Thursday, 21 September 2023 17:55 (six months ago) link

yeah i mean i worked for XLR8R at the time it came out so i definitely heard it but probably lumped it in with a lot of other stuff that i didn’t like— that filter house sound got really tedious real quick.

butt dumb tight my boners got boners (the table is the table), Friday, 22 September 2023 11:45 (six months ago) link

Ew. This song is excruciating.

hat trick of trashiness (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 22 September 2023 12:34 (six months ago) link

Say more?

butt dumb tight my boners got boners (the table is the table), Saturday, 23 September 2023 11:46 (six months ago) link

The title of this song reminds me of that Molly Shannon bit, “don’t get me started, don’t even get me started”

(the poster formerly known as Twitter) (flamboyant goon tie included), Saturday, 23 September 2023 14:26 (six months ago) link

i like "got me started" a lot... my interactions w/ this sample have been very minimal. the production is a cool melding of like 2 step and organ house. also dig the way the chorus vocals are treated.

i feel like one of the few gay guys alive who finds him non compelling to the point of boredom as a visual artist but musically speaking is quietly one of the more compelling pop stars going from a taste & execution standpoint. curious if he can string it together for a whole full length

J0rdan S., Thursday, 28 September 2023 20:29 (six months ago) link

"i feel like one of the few gay guys alive who finds him non compelling to the point of boredom as a visual artist"

this is a lot of words to say that you're not into twinks

Murgatroid, Thursday, 28 September 2023 21:53 (six months ago) link

to each their own in that regard— fwiw he does have mild Marfan syndrome, which does tend to yield…twinkier results whether or not one wants them. in his case, he’s embraced it.

butt dumb tight my boners got boners (the table is the table), Thursday, 28 September 2023 22:25 (six months ago) link

as far as aesthetics beyond just the bodies in the videos, i think that one of the elements that feels interesting to me is that there is a mainstreaming of certain queer signifiers via his videos and etc. while i can ramble about assimilation til my face turns blue, the unapologetic queerness of the videos is refreshing, particularly because we know it’s not just some pandering shit.

butt dumb tight my boners got boners (the table is the table), Thursday, 28 September 2023 23:54 (six months ago) link

i like the new song too, cautiously anticipating the album

dyl, Friday, 29 September 2023 17:28 (six months ago) link

two weeks pass...

great album

also, this video!!!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZhGl8McrOHo

Murgatroid, Sunday, 15 October 2023 03:06 (six months ago) link

that video is amazing but also… cue the discourse lol

have had the album on repeat for the past couple of days, so good

Roz, Sunday, 15 October 2023 03:28 (six months ago) link

I've warmed up to "Got Me Started" and this thing has a handful of strong tuneful mumbly jams.

hat trick of trashiness (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 15 October 2023 16:15 (six months ago) link

lol only just noticed the Star of David he wears in the video which is always but esp in the context of this past week... a choice

Murgatroid, Sunday, 15 October 2023 16:48 (six months ago) link

my my my

hat trick of trashiness (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 15 October 2023 18:08 (six months ago) link

Lol @ the Rush - "Power Windows" tee.

ripersnifle, Monday, 16 October 2023 21:51 (six months ago) link

I like this song the least of the singles so far, but the video the best

Dwigt Rortugal (Eric H.), Monday, 16 October 2023 21:58 (six months ago) link

was a bit iffy on it at first, but now am obsessed with the song, I guess the video helps

Murgatroid, Monday, 16 October 2023 23:22 (six months ago) link

My fav on this was actually the closer, "How To Stay With You." Pretty solid record. Much better than the last one.

ripersnifle, Tuesday, 17 October 2023 03:05 (five months ago) link

Is there something missing about this video? Makes me feel more comfortable to show off my own chicken legs but aside from that I'm... not gonna watch it a second time

Preach The Crapen (flamboyant goon tie included), Tuesday, 17 October 2023 04:46 (five months ago) link

Really digging this thing after walking, exercising, and driving to it for a week.

hat trick of trashiness (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 26 October 2023 15:03 (five months ago) link

I am taking a break from grading papers -- one of my students wrote about the rejection of hedonism in "Got Me Started" (he was describing hedonism and I was like...there's a word for that :)

Piggy Lepton (La Lechera), Thursday, 26 October 2023 15:10 (five months ago) link


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