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my mom's mortgage is less than half my rent

mookieproof, Saturday, 10 February 2018 21:47 (six years ago) link

my mortgage payment (mortgage + escrow for rent/insurance) is cheaper than my friend's rent downtown in.. Des Moines, Iowa

they have a pool, though

mh, Saturday, 10 February 2018 21:56 (six years ago) link

My brother was going to rent when he went back to school recently but then he just went ahead and bought a house instead because it was cheaper than renting.

(NB, he has already owned and sold a house and understands like financial stuff or whatever and makes good money and is an adult.)

Nonsense Ape Debones His Foot (Old Lunch), Saturday, 10 February 2018 23:21 (six years ago) link

Living in SF, believe you me, I know what the cheaper option is. (And I'm very, very lucky to have it.)

Ned Raggett, Saturday, 10 February 2018 23:34 (six years ago) link

Yeah but the phrase "cheaper option" when it comes to living in SF, is like the phrase "safer option" when given a choice between shooting yourself in the head or having someone else shoot you in the head.

sarahell, Sunday, 11 February 2018 01:44 (six years ago) link

feel like rent vs. buy decisions are hugely influenced by where you live. i’m not too worried about the value of my house where i live but i can see it in other parts of the country.

― call all destroyer

my wife's grandparents bought a nice house on a river bank in west virginia after the war. when they died there they didn't have a backyard, it was all river.

on the other hand after living in indiana for a decade without buying, we bought a house within the first year of moving to portland. making a commitment to living in indiana wasn't something either of us wanted to do, and building equity was less important to us than the ability to get the hell out when the time came. also, every single goddamn west coast city is going the way of sf, and we figured we needed to buy while we could.

here's a good guideline about buying a house: if it's worth buying, you probably can't afford it.

ziggy the ginhead (rushomancy), Sunday, 11 February 2018 12:26 (six years ago) link

I'll buy a house when I feel like it but I get sick of the smug attitudes of how i'm throwing money away. my parents had my childhood house for 31 years, and as a reward for their great investment....they got upside down, foreclosed and have filed for bankruptcy twice in a decade.

Obv context matters but to me doesn't seem like a slam dunk investment (at least not here). also I would probably burn the place down trying to make my first repair. my father's son I am not in that regard.

Hi diddley dee, hen fapper's life for me (Neanderthal), Sunday, 11 February 2018 14:06 (six years ago) link

Social security is fine and is not on the verge of collapsing and sucking all our salary deductions into a babyboomer-shaped black hole by the time we're 35, btw. At least not unless the government steals all the money out of it, which is a political decision, not some kind of inevitable truth of financial instruments.

Conic section rebellion 44 (in orbit), Sunday, 11 February 2018 14:36 (six years ago) link

buying a house for us was a great investment tradeoff for the money it took out of my 401k. It's more the doubled in value in the past 7 years and it's never, I don't think, going to go down below what we owe on it. I mean maybe it could, but there would have to be like, a nuclear strike on the bay area, I think, to really shift housing prices that much here.

akm, Sunday, 11 February 2018 15:51 (six years ago) link

In orbit otm

http://www.nybooks.com/articles/2015/03/05/rocky-road-taking-it-easy/

𝔠𝔞𝔢𝔨 (caek), Sunday, 11 February 2018 16:16 (six years ago) link

on the other hand after living in indiana for a decade without buying, we bought a house within the first year of moving to portland. making a commitment to living in indiana wasn't something either of us wanted to do,

you know that if you own a house, you don't have to live in it, you can rent it out? That's the one aspect of "mobility" that is often overlooked in the own vs. rent comparison. In expensive areas, it's often more expensive for a tenant to move than a homeowner to move and keep their house as a rental property.

sarahell, Sunday, 11 February 2018 19:11 (six years ago) link

One expense of becoming a landlord is the extra work involved in managing a rental property. If you farm most of it out to a management company, then you have to pay them for that and even then it isn't work-free for the owner. And if the house sits vacant for a time, it still generates costs with no income. So, there's that to consider.

A is for (Aimless), Sunday, 11 February 2018 19:15 (six years ago) link

You still own a house in indiana

Alderweireld Horses (darraghmac), Sunday, 11 February 2018 19:21 (six years ago) link

And a mortgage to an indianese bank

Alderweireld Horses (darraghmac), Sunday, 11 February 2018 19:22 (six years ago) link

I would never be a landlord much less of a property further away than next door or downstairs

El Tomboto, Sunday, 11 February 2018 19:27 (six years ago) link

tbh that's what property management companies are for, although that definitely puts a dent in your rent income

mh, Sunday, 11 February 2018 19:29 (six years ago) link

if i ever buy a house again it will definitely have a garage or basement apt/ MIL suite of some kind.

i will, of course, live in the basement apt and rent out the house

constitutional crises they fly at u face (will), Sunday, 11 February 2018 19:30 (six years ago) link

I would never be a landlord much less of a property further away than next door or downstairs

Gah, no thank you. A rented property that I could see from my window would be anxiety times ten.

Not sure which would be worse, being lessor or lessee.

If my landlord's a big company way across town, I can relax. However, if my landlord lived upstairs or next door, I'd feel watched (no matter how chill the arrangement or how friendly the handshake. Was last weekend's party too loud? Am I doing the right thing with the recycling? Can I have the band over? If so, what time do we need to turn down the amps? Can I paint everything purple? Can I nail up my extensive collection of Scandinavian death metal paraphernalia?

Contrariwise, are the tenants barbecuing an endangered species in the firepit? Are they having a party where they have satanic ritual sex while swinging from the chandeliers? Are they sawing into the floorboards to anti-vampire stakes? What was that noise in the basement just now? Did someone just say "it puts the lotion in the basket"? No matter how many times I told myself to not look into their affairs, it would be hard to just never even cast a passing glance at how they were behaving inside my investment.

I will finish what I (Ye Mad Puffin), Sunday, 11 February 2018 19:55 (six years ago) link

you know that if you own a house, you don't have to live in it, you can rent it out? That's the one aspect of "mobility" that is often overlooked in the own vs. rent comparison. In expensive areas, it's often more expensive for a tenant to move than a homeowner to move and keep their house as a rental property.

― sarahell

oh god, yeah, so i could deal with my tenants not making their payments on time and then saying "oh by the way i need my sink replaced, i dropped a toothbrush in it and it broke", fuck you you didn't drop a toothbrush in it you had a drunken party and somebody SAT ON my fucking sink and it collapsed and now i have to spend six months' rent to replace it, no thank you

ziggy the ginhead (rushomancy), Sunday, 11 February 2018 20:02 (six years ago) link

anywhere that it's attractive to buy a house, you have no idea what that place will look like in 30 years because climate change

, Sunday, 11 February 2018 22:47 (six years ago) link

anywhere that it's attractive to buy a house, you have no idea what that place will look like in 30 years because climate change

― 龜

having said that most models that don't involve total human extinction have portland coming out fairly well.

ziggy the ginhead (rushomancy), Sunday, 11 February 2018 23:33 (six years ago) link

Until the cascadia fault slips

𝔠𝔞𝔢𝔨 (caek), Monday, 12 February 2018 00:31 (six years ago) link

the one that's on a presumed 400 to 600 year recurrence cycle and had its last recurrence 300 years ago? compared to new madrid i'm not terribly concerned

ziggy the ginhead (rushomancy), Monday, 12 February 2018 00:41 (six years ago) link

hey can we predict nuclear annihilation too & really make this thread a party

jeez guys

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Monday, 12 February 2018 00:44 (six years ago) link

Tbh I think climate change is good news for my retirement planning considering it makes it more likely I’ll die prematurely

direct to consumer online mattress brand (silby), Monday, 12 February 2018 00:46 (six years ago) link

Lots of unlikely people will suddenly have oceanfront property,

Looking forward to living in the beach, if only for a while

I'm walking on Sondheim (Ye Mad Puffin), Monday, 12 February 2018 02:07 (six years ago) link

Lots of unlikely people will suddenly have oceanfront property,

Looking forward to living in the beach, if only for a while

― I'm walking on Sondheim (Ye Mad Puffin), Sunday, February 11, 2018 6:07 PM (yesterday)

I looked at maps a while back, and if I stay in my current place ... total beach!

sarahell, Monday, 12 February 2018 18:55 (six years ago) link

Some advice: don't look too closely at what's floating in the water.

A is for (Aimless), Monday, 12 February 2018 18:56 (six years ago) link

Based on the smell of what is currently a lake, this is already my standard practice.

sarahell, Monday, 12 February 2018 18:57 (six years ago) link

Fortunate to be about the last age group at my company with a guaranteed pension. Subsequent union contracts have eliminated the company-provided pension, while promoting personal responsibility for retirement. Didn't start my IRA until early 30s, against much advice, so am behind the curve to some of my peers, but still ahead of the national curve, I think.

Knock on wood, between personal savings, pension, retirement account w/ company match, and possibly Social Security, I should have enough to keep a SINK with a modest lifestyle set. Health is the big question mark.

the body of a spider... (scampering alpaca), Monday, 12 February 2018 20:19 (six years ago) link

certainly moving will make you re-evaluate how much vinyl you want to own

remember, even if you have a pension they can evaporate! Nothing is certain. Especially if the pension is not well funded

I hope to retire selling my valuable CD collection

Dean of the University (Latham Green), Tuesday, 13 February 2018 20:51 (six years ago) link

Automatic thread bump. This poll is closing tomorrow.

System, Tuesday, 27 February 2018 00:01 (six years ago) link

Idk more interested in these poll results than most

alomar lines, Tuesday, 27 February 2018 06:16 (six years ago) link

Poll options not high enough

Mr. Snrub, Tuesday, 27 February 2018 12:17 (six years ago) link

otrm

Simpson L. (darraghmac), Tuesday, 27 February 2018 12:32 (six years ago) link

Sorry. Guess I assumed most of you were in terrible positions in regards to retirement savings.

Jeff, Tuesday, 27 February 2018 16:40 (six years ago) link

i think the people that are in great positions want to distinguish themselves from those who are in merely ok positions ...

sarahell, Tuesday, 27 February 2018 16:59 (six years ago) link

Centrists Vs upper middles

Simpson L. (darraghmac), Tuesday, 27 February 2018 17:01 (six years ago) link

I have no idea what position I'm in (not bad? but maybe not good) and figure out what qualifies as good for someone with my income and interests

mh, Tuesday, 27 February 2018 17:11 (six years ago) link

age is a key factor in "good" -- if i was in my 20s and had what I have saved up, I'd feel pretty good about it, but I'm in my 40s, and so ... not so good.

sarahell, Tuesday, 27 February 2018 17:14 (six years ago) link

I'll definitely say that if I hadn't've got in and stuck with my UC position all this time since 1997, it might be looking a little dicier for me to an extent. Knowing I've had an actual pension as a backstop -- and that I'm three years away from being able to claim it if needed, though obviously the longer I stay in the system the more it will be -- takes a load off one's mind. (Also, compared to other pension situations that are indeed looking pretty dicey in general, the UC's is on stabler ground overall -- it's certainly nice to hear that the CalPERS system is on better ground now too, though UC's setup is separate from that.)

Ned Raggett, Tuesday, 27 February 2018 17:57 (six years ago) link

I'm kind of hoping, perversely, that the pension plan gets killed and rolled into my 401k or something as a lump sum? Because I think I have to retire from this place to get the pension (or get laid off) and I'd like to quit before then.

mh, Tuesday, 27 February 2018 18:15 (six years ago) link

Are you fully vested at all?

Ned Raggett, Tuesday, 27 February 2018 18:17 (six years ago) link

oh wait, I am behind on reading up on the changes to the plan

ignore previous post, I guess I don't care about that particular thing anymore

mh, Tuesday, 27 February 2018 18:19 (six years ago) link

just reading this thread title alone gave me anxiety . im out

(•̪●) (carne asada), Tuesday, 27 February 2018 18:19 (six years ago) link

just reading this thread title alone gave me anxiety . im out

― (•̪●) (carne asada), Tuesday, February 27, 2018 1:19 PM (twenty-four minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

same. don't be a music writer unless you want to completely destroy your future, defined as the span of time after you expire, defined as being older than 25

algorithm is a dancer (katherine), Tuesday, 27 February 2018 18:44 (six years ago) link

even pensions can get wiped out if they are not well managed.

the best retirement strategy is probably to go live in a different country - its the new retirement immigration plan!

Rabbit Control (Latham Green), Tuesday, 27 February 2018 19:05 (six years ago) link

Dont have to live like a 401k refugee

Rabbit Control (Latham Green), Tuesday, 27 February 2018 19:05 (six years ago) link

the best retirement strategy is probably to go live in a different country - its the new retirement immigration plan!

― Rabbit Control (Latham Green), Wednesday, 28 February 2018 6:05 AM (twelve minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

Grand old tradition in this, at least from the UK, soon to be halted by brexit.

I’m planning on retiring to japan as the will have the best aged care robots.

American Fear of Pranksterism (Ed), Tuesday, 27 February 2018 19:20 (six years ago) link


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