are you more like or unlike other people

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I can find intense passions in nearly everything, and in that sense I'm lucky and bedevilled - the charms outweighing the curses by magnitudes.

It was an active, and unnatural choice to re-investigate football at 20 years old because all my mates in my Uni halls of residence were into it. I didn't care for it and would likely have gone on that way, if not for the attempt to "fall into rank".

And now I am a season ticket holder hinging a great part of my emotion on something I can't control every Saturday at 3 o'clock, that often disappoints, and for some bizarre reason I love all of it. It's also a terrific crutch to navigate the water cooler chats with colleagues, who otherwise seem fairly alien to me.

My love of basketball on the other hand was quite naturally and instantaneously formed on flicking the channel onto the NBA playoffs after a night out. As a Scot though this interest is found particularly queer by nearly everyone I meet. They don't understand why I would regularly stay up till 3am watching a game thousands of miles away. The fact I enjoy it so much doesn't seem to cut it as an explanation.

It's like opening doors in a hallway. Some doors you can try and they won't open. Some doors are stiff but with a bit of effort you get there. Some doors open at the slightest touch. The latter is true of most of my doors. But once I have opened the door, I can't make an active decision to close the door. And I don't understand why anyone would.

So differing through choice. That choice being that I haven't put a check on behaviours that I'm well aware make me differ from other people - because I enjoy those behaviours.

carrotless, turnip-pocketed (fionnland), Sunday, 18 February 2018 13:49 (six years ago) link

one month passes...

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System, Saturday, 24 March 2018 00:01 (six years ago) link

I'm an insect who dreamt he was a man and loved it. But now the dream is over. And the insect is posting on the internet.

not quite as cool as seeing damo's wang but (contenderizer), Saturday, 24 March 2018 00:53 (six years ago) link

i'm like other people by choice

Gonna be some real cognitive dissonance when this choice comes in 4th place.

"Minneapolis" (barf) (Eric H.), Saturday, 24 March 2018 01:00 (six years ago) link

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System, Sunday, 25 March 2018 00:01 (six years ago) link

5 people choose to conform!

El Tomboto, Sunday, 25 March 2018 00:14 (six years ago) link

Path of least resistance.

Jeff, Sunday, 25 March 2018 00:24 (six years ago) link

5 people choose to conform!

Eh. 'Go along to get along' is a pretty popular choice irl.

A is for (Aimless), Sunday, 25 March 2018 03:19 (six years ago) link

Is this a question like the classic "Are you sane?", where people's answers should actually be inverted?

Alba, Sunday, 25 March 2018 03:25 (six years ago) link


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