Why do people leave ILX for good?

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I will definitely try to filter my output less!

Is it too optimistic to hope that this biopsy of ILX will lead to more people posting more often? Seems like the consensus wants that. Maybe it will just happen.

tangenttangent, Thursday, 9 August 2018 16:05 (five years ago) link

nah it's just people venting, happens a few times a year

niels, Thursday, 9 August 2018 16:07 (five years ago) link

yeah there are so many of these meta-STATE OF ILX threads

oddly they are all the same

Οὖτις, Thursday, 9 August 2018 16:08 (five years ago) link

I'm going to start a Doopees thread on ILM later today when I get home.

He said captain, I said wot (FlopsyDuck), Thursday, 9 August 2018 16:09 (five years ago) link

My right arm used to be so awesome, so strong and agile. Now it's just weak and flabby. Those tattoos were a bad idea, turns out. Wish my arm could be what it used to be, man.

Piece of shit arm.

Funkface LLC (Old Lunch), Thursday, 9 August 2018 16:11 (five years ago) link

It evolved

jeremy cmbyn (wins), Thursday, 9 August 2018 16:15 (five years ago) link

it’s less that I self-censor about artists I’m enthusiastic about, more that it just gets depressing to post into the void

aloha darkness my old friend (katherine), Thursday, 9 August 2018 16:16 (five years ago) link

feels like less of void when i post here than when i do on twitter

marcos, Thursday, 9 August 2018 16:19 (five years ago) link

katherine, i feel exactly the same way - there is definitely a gulf in tastes between many users. ive been championing the ionalee record for the whole year so far and like akm and I are the only ones to really comment on it seemingly. i agree with above that there should be more dedicated threads to single artists, but sometimes they sink (this happened with my cecilia thread, a fantastic record that has received zero traction). so the risk is putting out your feelers and seeing if anyone bites, if not, it may still be worth it to push something you love out there, even if 1 person hears it. the rolling threads as mentioned above do kinda narrow things down too much.

music has always been about radical subjectivism with the exception of some consensus-canon, let your individualism fly. (switching to new user name shortly, hence why i am still under this name FWIW).

Ross, Thursday, 9 August 2018 16:19 (five years ago) link

I'll test some ionalee and cecilia - whatever they are

He said captain, I said wot (FlopsyDuck), Thursday, 9 August 2018 16:22 (five years ago) link

oh, iamamiwhoami with ionalee... 'Play' is a great song

He said captain, I said wot (FlopsyDuck), Thursday, 9 August 2018 16:24 (five years ago) link

ionalee is great — previously known as “iamamiwhoami”

omar little, Thursday, 9 August 2018 16:25 (five years ago) link

Xp 🤷‍♂️

omar little, Thursday, 9 August 2018 16:25 (five years ago) link

I've thought of her this year as propagating a similar sound to Gwenno, whose album I much preferred.

tangenttangent, Thursday, 9 August 2018 16:29 (five years ago) link

ok its cool ur all posting now but ilm is that way

dele alli my bookmarks (darraghmac), Thursday, 9 August 2018 16:32 (five years ago) link

sincere shout out to ppl who start threads, especially new band/album threads. absolutely performing a service.

Roberto Spiralli, Thursday, 9 August 2018 16:33 (five years ago) link

take these posts to heart and finally start that volkswagen t-roc thread

for i, sock in enumerate (Sufjan Grafton), Thursday, 9 August 2018 16:35 (five years ago) link

I used to start threads. I had time back then!

Evan, Thursday, 9 August 2018 16:48 (five years ago) link

YOU COULDA BEEN A CONTENDERIZER

dele alli my bookmarks (darraghmac), Thursday, 9 August 2018 16:52 (five years ago) link

everyone celebrates the thread starters. nobody remembers the thread enders.
like this post if you remember.

for i, sock in enumerate (Sufjan Grafton), Thursday, 9 August 2018 16:58 (five years ago) link

You do realize you killed that thread, right?

sleeve, Thursday, 9 August 2018 17:00 (five years ago) link

I feel that it's my duty to start as many threads as possible, given how many I kill stone dead. Circle of life, hakuna matata, all that.

Funkface LLC (Old Lunch), Thursday, 9 August 2018 17:03 (five years ago) link

BIG HOOS aka the threadkiller

(xpost)

ilxor-com-dog-meat-drawer-7-840-x-600.jpg (unregistered), Thursday, 9 August 2018 17:04 (five years ago) link

80% of my posts are the last in the thread. I'm just that boring!

Evan, Thursday, 9 August 2018 17:05 (five years ago) link

N.E.R.L.

outside, you're never alone. (Austin), Thursday, 9 August 2018 17:05 (five years ago) link

xpost maybe your posts are so authoritatively good that they simply cannot be followed

Karl Malone, Thursday, 9 August 2018 17:17 (five years ago) link

sometimes i make a jokey post on a very active good-natured thread and it's like...

https://media.giphy.com/media/qwJMG80aUfVKM/giphy.gif

...until it's revived again weeks later to discuss something unrelated.

omar little, Thursday, 9 August 2018 17:19 (five years ago) link

four years pass...

Funkface LLC (Old Lunch), Thursday, 9 August 2018 17:21 (five years ago) link

Haha, Omar, you and me both. No better feeling than dropping a stinker that clears out the room.

Mario Meatwagon (Moodles), Thursday, 9 August 2018 17:27 (five years ago) link

fifty-seven years pass...

Funkface LLC (Old Lunch), Thursday, 9 August 2018 17:33 (five years ago) link

Turning threads into Chernobyl zones since 2001.

Mario Meatwagon (Moodles), Thursday, 9 August 2018 17:37 (five years ago) link

xpost maybe your posts are so authoritatively good that they simply cannot be followed

― Karl Malone, Thursday, August 9, 2018 1:17 PM (seventeen minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

That's the same thing my mom told me after I got banned from open mic night

Evan, Thursday, 9 August 2018 17:40 (five years ago) link

nine years pass...

rip van wanko, Thursday, 9 August 2018 17:42 (five years ago) link

not to eat an old lunch here but four hundred and twenty years pass...

for i, sock in enumerate (Sufjan Grafton), Thursday, 9 August 2018 17:43 (five years ago) link

finally, time for a smoke break

sleeve, Thursday, 9 August 2018 17:44 (five years ago) link

maybe System could auto-post to any thread that's been killed dead for a week. stuff like "yeah, totally" or "you're great" or "chive on".

for i, sock in enumerate (Sufjan Grafton), Thursday, 9 August 2018 17:46 (five years ago) link

Random Austin Powers quotes or gtfo, System.

Funkface LLC (Old Lunch), Thursday, 9 August 2018 17:49 (five years ago) link

A simple "lads" would suffice.

Mario Meatwagon (Moodles), Thursday, 9 August 2018 17:52 (five years ago) link

Oh, behave!

Funkface LLC (Old Lunch), Thursday, 9 August 2018 18:20 (five years ago) link

maybe do austin powers but replace 'baby' with 'lads'?

for i, sock in enumerate (Sufjan Grafton), Thursday, 9 August 2018 18:23 (five years ago) link

I'm going to start a Doopees thread on ILM later today when I get home.

― He said captain, I said wot (FlopsyDuck), Thursday, August 9, 2018 5:09 PM (two hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

Yessss

MaresNest, Thursday, 9 August 2018 18:51 (five years ago) link

Who is "System" here... Ned?

Evan, Thursday, 9 August 2018 19:05 (five years ago) link

Ned is Station.

Andrew Farrell, Thursday, 9 August 2018 19:10 (five years ago) link

Ned is all of us. We are all Ned.

outside, you're never alone. (Austin), Thursday, 9 August 2018 19:48 (five years ago) link

man i had the worst nightmare last night

i was in the public square losing my mind, waving my arms like a madman and yelling and screaming

phew! good thing it was just a dream

the late great, Thursday, 9 August 2018 21:02 (five years ago) link

never watch Newsies just before bedtime

for i, sock in enumerate (Sufjan Grafton), Thursday, 9 August 2018 21:06 (five years ago) link

it was just a dream

used to read threads and scream

mh, Thursday, 9 August 2018 21:07 (five years ago) link

sometimes your posts just stigmatize me

rip van wanko, Thursday, 9 August 2018 21:16 (five years ago) link

Never trust a big thread and a LOL

― fuck the NRA (Neanderthal), Thursday, August 9, 2018 8:45 AM (five hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

lol

InfoWarriors (Spottie), Thursday, 9 August 2018 21:17 (five years ago) link

FWIW the archives are full of threads started about bands/songs that gained no traction at the time and then started snowballing. I would 100% encourage people to start more threads about new stuff they're into rather than chucking it onto a rolling thread where it'll disappear within hours. Who cares if no one responds?

Matt DC, Thursday, 9 August 2018 21:29 (five years ago) link


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