Why do people leave ILX for good?

say who and i can tell you

ive been a dick lately - time to take accountability for that and be way more aware

there was briefly a trend i noticed recently where longtime posters who never made an impression one way or another suddenly turned into attention-begging creeps but afaict they were either banned or left of their own accord.

Nah, I'm still here.

JK above by the way djh- I definitely know how it feels to struggle with the fear that others don't find you all that interesting. I was much more sensitive about that in the past.

you can't see people quietly nodding on the internet

incidentally, this shit right here is why people leave. I write a review on an entirely different website, which is a thing I do, because I write about music, and am immediately branded a troll, because I don't like a song.

the 1975

fwiw there's never any point in engaging with deej, but particularly when he does the four-consecutive-complaining-posts thing

also recommended to ignore whiney when he starts posting images

kind of hard not to engage when you are dragged into a thread by name, unsolicited

yeah. sorry

There are not enough eye roll emojis in the world

I’m actually starting to think Katherine really is a troll, tjeway shes repeating this IMMEDIATELY IM BRANDED A TROLL overreaction to k3vin being butthurt someone didn’t like his favorite band

Like an instant later jordan defended you & literally everyone else in that thread said you’re not a troll

I do think you’re being a tremendous baby though

for fuck’s sake can you please stop

You’re the one who “dragged this” conversation into a third thread or whatever

please leave me the fuck alone

Happily

That means "stop responding"

Thanks for the advice no one asked for

But that someone needed.

Lol flag post me then u wuss

I said I’d stop responding to her but I’m happy to waste your time

request granted

I do think you’re being a tremendous baby though

― Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40)

holy fuck are you serious

He’s always serious

but never mad

Is this the guy who shits up ILM for everyone all the time?

I’m serious that I think complaining across three threads that ilx has branded you a troll because k3v said ppl who don’t like the 1975 are trolling is OC

Leave your spergy beefs over there man. We dont care.

Mmmm Mongolian beef

Wait fuck delete

I thought she wanted to be left alone though, maybe you guys should drop it ? Taking me to ilx court for high crimes of arguing on ilx is probably not worth your time

The ppl who hop in these threads to pile on me for being a terrible poster but never engage in 90% of the threads I participate in are def my favorite part of ilx ... never change... mookieproof?

I’m serious that I think complaining across three threads that ilx has branded you a troll because k3v said ppl who don’t like the 1975 are trolling is OC

― Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Thursday, August 16, 2018 9:46 PM (four minutes ago

just for the record this is not what I said. but I don't want to be involved in this

what a coincidence

Deej you're one of the reasons I dont post to ILM!

And in katherine's defence I agree with her, women get shit on on ILM a lot and it is DEF a reason to leave, which is, uh, the point of this thread actually.

Why didnt you pile on edwardo and a few other ppl on that off-board blogpost for hating on the band? OH WAIT THEY ARENT WOMEN.

If you want the honest answer it’s that I took Katherine more seriously than them lol but I guess that doesn’t fit into this neat narrative

Also Trayce I feel like we’ve engaged almost never on ilx so that seems odd

trayce you're thinking of t*rrican

Both maybe - to be fair I only skim traincrash threads and I am shit stirring rite now.

can you please not shit-stir, I would really prefer if all of this stopped

fair point k. will do.

i have been on here so consistently for so many years it's terrifying. however, I don't actually know who any of you are anymore

Eh i know who u r

lol

Can't we just settle this clusterfuck with Flag Posts, like civilized beings?

flag posts don't do anything

if an ilx beef threatens to take over "if an ilx beef threatens to take over a perfectly innocent thread you can politely direct people here." you can direct people here.

at any rate the blurb is gone, and I'd really prefer not to hear about it again. it's discouraging enough that I get angry emails from stans whenever I write something less than positive, and I wish it wouldn't happen from colleagues as well

I’m sorry this became such an ordeal which certainly wasn’t my intent

*shits*

velko otm