Public Shaming C/D?

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Now I have go find that thread about smirky animated characters, a la Kung Fu Panda.

Never Turn Your Back On Virginia Woolf (Tom D.), Tuesday, 22 January 2019 15:55 (five years ago) link

You are all so wrong, here are a whole bunch of people of color smurfing:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SGD51BXPwa4

Josh in Chicago, Tuesday, 22 January 2019 15:56 (five years ago) link

Oh wait

Josh in Chicago, Tuesday, 22 January 2019 15:56 (five years ago) link

Treesh is around 30 but I think he adopts the mindset of a naïf as an exercise, which I can’t really object to

I have measured out my life in coffee shop loyalty cards (silby), Tuesday, 22 January 2019 15:58 (five years ago) link

he's just a thoughtful & sensitive person. he's not a naif. he's sometimes soft-spoken.

Mordy, Tuesday, 22 January 2019 15:58 (five years ago) link

Watch out for that stick he's carrying though.

Never Turn Your Back On Virginia Woolf (Tom D.), Tuesday, 22 January 2019 16:00 (five years ago) link

xpost maybe he's just a nice guy. Although, since he uses social media that seems impossible.

Yerac, Tuesday, 22 January 2019 16:00 (five years ago) link

well idk about a stick

Mordy, Tuesday, 22 January 2019 16:00 (five years ago) link

See that’s the thing Mordy, some people deserve public shaming and some don’t. I’m not worried that people will think I’m an anti-Semite because it’s obvious that I’m not. The MAGA hat chuds should be very worried that they will experience the consequences of people thinking that they’re white supremacists—because they are in fact white supremacists

Dan I., Tuesday, 22 January 2019 16:00 (five years ago) link

he quits social media all the time tho and then is dragged back in (sorry for talking so much about u tres), i think he finds it physically painful (tho otoh who doesn't)

Mordy, Tuesday, 22 January 2019 16:01 (five years ago) link

xp fyi it's not obvious that you're not

Mordy, Tuesday, 22 January 2019 16:01 (five years ago) link

wins otm

mh, Tuesday, 22 January 2019 16:01 (five years ago) link

I've read ethnographic studies on egalitarian societies where shaming is used as a formalized means of social control to keep potential upstarts from getting too big for their britches. The implication being that a dose of mild clowning is strike one but that continued infractions will lead to banishment from the community or, y'know, straight-up execution. Without some formalized structure or an understanding on all sides of what the roles of the shamer and the shame-ee entail, it's kinda just like...aimless vigilante flailing in an attempt to shore up the extent to which our law/society fails to adequately address malignant transgressive behavior.

E Pluripubis Unum (Old Lunch), Tuesday, 22 January 2019 16:02 (five years ago) link

i give ppl the benefit of the doubt on these sorts of things pretty much always so i'm inclined to say you were just thoughtless and dumb when you made your comments but other ppl disagreed and i wasn't 100% sure myself. xxp

Mordy, Tuesday, 22 January 2019 16:02 (five years ago) link

My partner uses absolutely no social media and is like a baby panda.

Yerac, Tuesday, 22 January 2019 16:03 (five years ago) link

Aww

I have measured out my life in coffee shop loyalty cards (silby), Tuesday, 22 January 2019 16:04 (five years ago) link

I am however apparently a very poor speller in the absence of autocorrect! Xposts

Dan I., Tuesday, 22 January 2019 16:05 (five years ago) link

Watch out for that stick he's carrying though.

Stick or shtick?

tokyo rosemary, Tuesday, 22 January 2019 16:06 (five years ago) link

aimless: vigilante flailing in an attempt to shore up the extent to which our law/society fails to adequately address malignant transgressive behavior.

― E Pluripubis Unum (Old Lunch), Tuesday, 22 January 2019 16:02 (ten minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

i think he should adopt this persona fwiw

topical mlady (darraghmac), Tuesday, 22 January 2019 16:13 (five years ago) link

Make it a case study then— Public shaming is about making the truth of someone’s actions widely known. Here’s the video of the chud kids (“full video” or not, take your pick, they don’t come off any better in any version) everybody, here they are captured on film. They aren’t being publicly shamed so much as bringing shame upon themselves

Dan I., Tuesday, 22 January 2019 16:15 (five years ago) link

Same thing with dragging a maga hat wearing child into the public square.

Resolved: That a rich Catholic school boy who got bused in with a whole bunch of other rich Catholic school boys to stand around Washington DC telling women they shouldn't be allowed to get abortions didn't get "dragged into" shit.

Plinka Trinka Banga Tink (Eliza D.), Tuesday, 22 January 2019 16:20 (five years ago) link

I think a degree of self-shaming is necessary as a corrective against antisocial behavior but what do you do in a world where a generation of people have watched other people coast to fame (and the White House) on a wave of shamelessness, thus blunting much of the impact and the impetus of shaming?

E Pluripubis Unum (Old Lunch), Tuesday, 22 January 2019 16:22 (five years ago) link

ie is shame a concept that mostly only holds water with us olds?

E Pluripubis Unum (Old Lunch), Tuesday, 22 January 2019 16:23 (five years ago) link

eliza d otm.

Yerac, Tuesday, 22 January 2019 16:24 (five years ago) link

It’s not about making them feel bad. If the chud kids have a hard time getting into colleges, finding girlfriends, getting jobs, then the public shaming worked.

Dan I., Tuesday, 22 January 2019 16:25 (five years ago) link

I feel the same about all convicted felons

Sarri, Sarri, pride of our alley (Noodle Vague), Tuesday, 22 January 2019 16:26 (five years ago) link

I feel like shaming when Cee-Lo says "it's not rape if you don't remember" is valid and necessary.

Public shaming for an unintentional, minor transgression by an individual, less helpful than teachable moment.

Former more common than latter.

MAGA kid can't claim he and his cohorts wore MAGA hats in a very public place, took of their shirts and showed their asses in public, then act like they have any expectation of privacy. Wah wah.

fuck the NRA (Neanderthal), Tuesday, 22 January 2019 16:28 (five years ago) link

Felons have never had the option of pretending they aren’t felons. Shaming forces everyone to take that same responsibility for their words and actions

Dan I., Tuesday, 22 January 2019 16:29 (five years ago) link

I’m trying to agree find common ground with the Captain Save-a-MAGAs: we won’t shame him if we can all agree that he needs that smirk punched off his face (a la Spencer) at 12:01am on his 18th Birthday.

Andrew "Hit Dice" Clay (PBKR), Tuesday, 22 January 2019 16:33 (five years ago) link

No one is saying the kid is a cool guy, just that it’s weird for national publications like Slate to put someone so young on blast for smirking. It’s displaced anger. The chaperones are responsible for the behavior of the kids on the trip and the Republican Party is responsible for promoting a toxic, craven and bigoted form of politics across the nation.

Trϵϵship, Tuesday, 22 January 2019 16:40 (five years ago) link

Just to clarify, I’m ok with the chaperones getting punched also.

Andrew "Hit Dice" Clay (PBKR), Tuesday, 22 January 2019 16:44 (five years ago) link

The chaperones are responsible for the behavior of the kids on the trip

FUCK no

How ILX Finally Stopped Shredding Everything in Sight (WmC), Tuesday, 22 January 2019 16:44 (five years ago) link

No ones accusing them of a crime! Their being under 18 does absolutely nothing to excuse their actions

Dan I., Tuesday, 22 January 2019 16:44 (five years ago) link

idk trís

totally emboldened asshole bigots dont spring fully formed at 18

v handwavey there about agency of this fella and the many like him

topical mlady (darraghmac), Tuesday, 22 January 2019 16:44 (five years ago) link

Felons have never had the option of pretending they aren’t felons. Shaming forces everyone to take that same responsibility for their words and actions

does no such option exist in america? in other countries it does. it's possible to show compassion towards criminals. people's behaviour has mitigating circumstances. otherwise why not just stone people to death or jail them for life? why have varying sentences? not sure the punitive mindset has functioned particularly well in dealing with people's bad behaviour yet it seems fairly popular in recent times.

FernandoHierro, Tuesday, 22 January 2019 16:45 (five years ago) link

I didn't know ILX to be such a staunch opponent of social determinism.

pomenitul, Tuesday, 22 January 2019 16:46 (five years ago) link

^

Trϵϵship, Tuesday, 22 January 2019 16:47 (five years ago) link

Sorry menat to one up fernando

Trϵϵship, Tuesday, 22 January 2019 16:48 (five years ago) link

Like the kid only matters as an example. Do we want to resist right wing populism by zeroing in on one person at a time and pecking them to death? Would that even work? The live in their own spheres anyway and will just see one another more and more as victims.

Trϵϵship, Tuesday, 22 January 2019 16:51 (five years ago) link

We could peck more to death with A.I. birds

fuck the NRA (Neanderthal), Tuesday, 22 January 2019 16:52 (five years ago) link

Now we're talkin'.

pomenitul, Tuesday, 22 January 2019 16:53 (five years ago) link

If you had the technology to peck every single trump supporter to death, that at least would have the benefit of being effective

Trϵϵship, Tuesday, 22 January 2019 16:54 (five years ago) link

It serves to marginalize them. It serves to reinforce the idea that what they did is and should be widely considered Wrong. It serves to prevent their behavior from becoming normalized.

Dan I., Tuesday, 22 January 2019 16:55 (five years ago) link

I took a felony when I was much younger when I was charged with something I didn't do, and because I had no money to bail myself it was either plead guilty or sit in jail for months waiting for a trial at which I'd be defended by a PD and probably lose anyway on account of that. What island would you like me shipped to

calumy (rip van wanko), Tuesday, 22 January 2019 16:55 (five years ago) link

mon over here rip and welcome

topical mlady (darraghmac), Tuesday, 22 January 2019 16:56 (five years ago) link

The one where they teach reading comprehension? Xpost

Dan I., Tuesday, 22 January 2019 16:56 (five years ago) link

You seem like such a lovely guy, Dan

Trϵϵship, Tuesday, 22 January 2019 16:57 (five years ago) link

I like that you capitalized the W, Dan.

pomenitul, Tuesday, 22 January 2019 16:57 (five years ago) link

ah yes sorry and carry on

calumy (rip van wanko), Tuesday, 22 January 2019 16:59 (five years ago) link

What island teaches that

fuck the NRA (Neanderthal), Tuesday, 22 January 2019 17:00 (five years ago) link

i think you mean, 'is it Classic or Dud'

ILX’s bad boy (D-40), Thursday, 24 January 2019 23:52 (five years ago) link


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