I felt it was sorta like the Jenny Slate thing where it was a person who generally is funny but who hasn't fully figured out how standup sets work.
But the other thing that bothered me was all the gender/sexuality stuff, where she's pledging solidarity (ok, great!) but then also weirdly undermining that solidarity at the same time. And I don't mean that she's a hetero woman that's married to a hetero man. For example, she talks about discussing gender identity with one of her lesbian friends and talking about what they "feel" like ("70% female/30% male") and my reaction was - waitaminit, what is this weird gender normative division she's enthusiastically blathering about? What part of her psyche is she identifying as "male" (apparently the horny, aggressive side)? Isn't characterizing those things as male (and all the other stuff - being domestic, cutesy, etc. as female) part of the whole problem? Isn't the ideal goal to disassociate behaviors we all engage in, to varying degrees, from gender, and just see them as stuff people do (or don't do), regardless of gender identity?
― Οὖτις, Monday, 6 January 2020 22:03 (four years ago) link