The way we live now - how will covid-19 change us?

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our way of life changed permanently in many ways after the Great Recession. i suspect the arts are going to get fucked in so many ways.

concert promoters are getting beat up so hard right now. theatres are shutting. bands are ass out.

ultimately I think the future will be we never leave our houses, but all houses are fitted with wheels and remote controls, so our houses are like cars we can drive around to visit each other. cars will no longer be needed.

sex is going to be really weird.

sorry for butt rockin (Neanderthal), Wednesday, 18 March 2020 03:52 (four years ago) link

pretty much the hobbies that keep me the most invigorated are going to be scarcer and harder to participate in and that's gonna fuckin' suck

sorry for butt rockin (Neanderthal), Wednesday, 18 March 2020 03:53 (four years ago) link

weirdly, I have an anxiety disorder, and despite me having typed all of that, I'm not scared about any of it. cos who knows what'll really happen

sorry for butt rockin (Neanderthal), Wednesday, 18 March 2020 03:54 (four years ago) link

INFO: i need to know how sex with my spouse is going to get weirder.

Yerac, Wednesday, 18 March 2020 04:01 (four years ago) link

I suspect partner sex will be the same, I was envisioning two people that don't live together though emerging from their house in this hermetically sealed bubble and like somehow transferring fluids between their bubbles

sorry for butt rockin (Neanderthal), Wednesday, 18 March 2020 04:03 (four years ago) link

*spousal, not partner. oi...long day

sorry for butt rockin (Neanderthal), Wednesday, 18 March 2020 04:03 (four years ago) link

sex for me will be about the same - non-existent!

sorry for butt rockin (Neanderthal), Wednesday, 18 March 2020 04:04 (four years ago) link

the fluids are obviously the best part.

Yerac, Wednesday, 18 March 2020 04:04 (four years ago) link

maybe they'll use those containers that they use in the drive-thru at the bank

sorry for butt rockin (Neanderthal), Wednesday, 18 March 2020 04:06 (four years ago) link

I think people will wash their hands more

Guayaquil (eephus!), Wednesday, 18 March 2020 04:07 (four years ago) link

I mean, in general, not during sex

Guayaquil (eephus!), Wednesday, 18 March 2020 04:07 (four years ago) link

Or who knows, maybe also during sex

Guayaquil (eephus!), Wednesday, 18 March 2020 04:07 (four years ago) link

i already wash them way more

sorry for butt rockin (Neanderthal), Wednesday, 18 March 2020 04:11 (four years ago) link

there was a substantial drop in birth rates in the great depression and there almost certainly will be another one coming up for about four obvious reasons

like, I’m eating an elephant head (katherine), Wednesday, 18 March 2020 04:48 (four years ago) link

I feel like there will be a baby boom in 9-10 months. Now that we're both WFH, I've never spent this much daily time with my wife in our entire relationship, I imagine this will continue provided our daycare doesn't close.

Jersey Al (Albert R. Broccoli), Wednesday, 18 March 2020 05:05 (four years ago) link

In 13 years those babies will be quaranteens

Ok bloomer (latebloomer), Wednesday, 18 March 2020 05:06 (four years ago) link

lol

Dan S, Wednesday, 18 March 2020 05:07 (four years ago) link

I will be a eunuch for the rest of my life

xpost oh jesus christ lb

sorry for butt rockin (Neanderthal), Wednesday, 18 March 2020 05:09 (four years ago) link

Lots of people who provide almost no value to humanity are working from home, will stay comfortable and safe; many more people who are necessary, important and generally underpaid will continue to expose themselves to danger in order to get the first group their delivery of French fries/artisanal dog food - if they're lucky enough to keep working.

Maybe we'll catch on to this dichotomy.

Greta Van Show Feets BB (milo z), Wednesday, 18 March 2020 05:13 (four years ago) link

there was a substantial drop in birth rates in the great depression and there almost certainly will be another one coming up for about four obvious reasons

come on, the Ghostbusters reboot wasn't that bad

avellano medio inglés (f. hazel), Wednesday, 18 March 2020 05:15 (four years ago) link

Further rise of video conferencing / remote work will probably reduce business travel. helpful for reducing carbon emissions.

that's not my post, Wednesday, 18 March 2020 05:32 (four years ago) link

After living thru one global catastrophe, will we finally get the necessary political will to tackle climate change?

that's not my post, Wednesday, 18 March 2020 05:34 (four years ago) link

soy and linseed sourdough doesn't sound very good to me

Dan S, Wednesday, 18 March 2020 05:48 (four years ago) link

Real talk from someone on the inside of this particular issue - local government is going to be fundamentally transformed from here on out. Mayors/alderman/councilpersons (insert your town or cities structure here) will be held accountable for dead people in their municipalities that resulted from the general lack of public policy spawned by years of “our job is development” and “but my property taxes” as priority number one.

jjjusten, Wednesday, 18 March 2020 05:53 (four years ago) link

Large cities aren’t immune to this criticism, but generally they are already operating on a higher level (cops not being bastards, rent control, etc) so economically removed policy has been considered by voters. “Small town politics” on the other hand will be changed in a fundamental way. Some of which will be good, some of which will be catastrophically bad. Get ready to see the usual lawyer/realtor/developer group lose their spots (good) but prepare to see reactionary nutjobs seep in as well.

jjjusten, Wednesday, 18 March 2020 06:02 (four years ago) link

Oh also, hi. Outside of the explosion of work at my very secondary job, my main job is leaving me a lot of spare time, so I might be around for a while again.

jjjusten, Wednesday, 18 March 2020 06:04 (four years ago) link

soy and linseed sourdough doesn't sound very good to me

it's delicious!

umsworth (emsworth), Wednesday, 18 March 2020 06:46 (four years ago) link

I was chatting to a Berlin based friend who is struggling to get by but was just about surviving by air bnb-ing part of his flat. Obv that income stream is fucked for now, but was thinking the whole concept of air bnb might not recover for a long time even after this has passed.

calzino, Wednesday, 18 March 2020 09:35 (four years ago) link

we were already living in a time of profound political uncertainty, already living under a political system under intense pressure and strain. crises test institutions, and our institutions didn't seem to me to be super robust even before this hit.

i gave up making long-term, specific predictions in november 2016. i don't feel like there's enough specific information about covid-19 right now for me to make any prognostications that are differentiable from wide-eyed speculation. i don't feel like contemplating the potential collapse of "civilization" is particularly helpful to me, personally.

someone on one of my discords was predicting long-term quarantine. i'm thinking about how that would play out. overnight we have a world where the opportunities for billions of people, people who maybe didn't already have super great opportunities in the first place, have dramatically narrowed. people who can't work, can't learn, can't pay their bills. is the expectation that these people will quietly starve to death?

i feel like there is also a certain amount of underestimating of the social effects of prolonged social isolation. i'm a huge introvert. i don't get out much. i'm struggling to imagine a world where almost all our interaction takes place over screens and phones that doesn't involve everybody going utterly fucking bonkers. "stay at home and never talk to anybody again" isn't practical advice. as much as we are into collectively shaming people who go outside, there are folks who have a profound need for social contact. i can't bring myself to assume that refusal to live in complete social isolation is completely a conscious act of moral failure in all cases.

Kate (rushomancy), Wednesday, 18 March 2020 09:54 (four years ago) link

Large cities aren’t immune to this criticism, but generally they are already operating on a higher level (cops not being bastards

― jjjusten

fucking lol

Kate (rushomancy), Wednesday, 18 March 2020 09:55 (four years ago) link

I guess the original premise is in part about small but significant changes in our behaviour that will arise from this period of self-containment that could continue if and when things return to something approaching normal? ie after the epidemic is brought under control or effective vaccines or treatments are discovered?

The biggest area for me is around tourism, holidays, business travel etc. On the assumption that industrialised nations will return to broad normality within a year or so then a lot of things will come absolutely roaring back if there is money available - restaurants, nightlife etc being main area, because the pent-up demand will be gigantic. But when is the opportunity to just travel somewhere coming back? The crisis has barely even begun in poorer nations and that's going to have a huge effect on which countries are easier or harder to get into.

Matt DC, Wednesday, 18 March 2020 12:40 (four years ago) link

Trying to think really small here, is there a board game boom on the way for example?

Matt DC, Wednesday, 18 March 2020 12:41 (four years ago) link

Yeah the thread is really for small things, I thought there was enough eschatology literally everywhere else. Can’t even go into some threads much because some people seem to be enjoying it.

gramsci in your surplice (gyac), Wednesday, 18 March 2020 12:43 (four years ago) link

I'm wondering what happens to pop music when people can't meet up and dance. We're going to find out soon enough but there could be a sonic step-change in the offing.

Matt DC, Wednesday, 18 March 2020 12:51 (four years ago) link

Who is enjoying this?

xyzzzz__, Wednesday, 18 March 2020 13:06 (four years ago) link

If you don’t know, you don’t read the threads enough, is all I’m say.

gramsci in your surplice (gyac), Wednesday, 18 March 2020 13:07 (four years ago) link

I'm wondering what happens to pop music when people can't meet up and dance. We're going to find out soon enough but there could be a sonic step-change in the offing.


Lots more bedroom music & self-releases? Everyone really will have a soundcloud.

gramsci in your surplice (gyac), Wednesday, 18 March 2020 13:11 (four years ago) link

I feel like cities might empty out of younger people if this goes on for long. Why pay the rent of living in an urban environment if you can’t reap any of the benefits?

Coffee shops are (especially) doomed. Nespresso adoption is going to skyrocket.

El Tomboto, Wednesday, 18 March 2020 13:12 (four years ago) link

I am really hoping we get a long moratorium of politicians trolling the public/their constituents.

Yerac, Wednesday, 18 March 2020 13:13 (four years ago) link

maybe food is going to get a bit more geared to the essentials? less artisinal/bourgie

like, fewer people are gonna be cheerfully paying $8.50 Australian (as I do a few times a week) for a loaf soy and linseed sourdough

i literally made my own linseed and emmer sourdough this morning. isolation = crafts (& crusts)

Li'l Brexit (Tracer Hand), Wednesday, 18 March 2020 13:21 (four years ago) link

remote work is gonna really fuck universities in the long run

― Paul Ponzi, Tuesday, March 17, 2020

This can't be stressed enough.

TikTok to the (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 18 March 2020 13:23 (four years ago) link

Can't see things vastly changing re: remote working.

It's partly that the infrastructure would need to improve but mainly that managers usually get off on the day-to-day control.

xyzzzz__, Wednesday, 18 March 2020 13:26 (four years ago) link

seeing a lot of musicians and DJs I follow on social media begin livestreaming performances from home, sometimes posting paypal or venmo links

turn the jawhatthefuckever on (One Eye Open), Wednesday, 18 March 2020 13:28 (four years ago) link

idk whether distance learning is going to be a medium / long term proposition for most universities.

What's likely to have a more immediate financial and cultural impact is an end to international student mobility.

ShariVari, Wednesday, 18 March 2020 13:35 (four years ago) link

Managers can still “get off” on their daily control needs by holding morning sync teleconferences and regular status reports. Telework offers potentially even more ways for bosses to surveil employee behavior.

El Tomboto, Wednesday, 18 March 2020 13:40 (four years ago) link

I wouldn't be surprised if a whole lot of things that should or could change, won't. I think a lot of people already long for "how things were" and will wish to return to exactly what it was like, our species being very fond of habits and regularity etc. I also think mobility (international in every way: work, students, leisure) is already so ingrained it takes more than this one virus to put a stop to that?

Card/phone payment only though, that I can see finally catching on completely. The war on cash has been going on for some time now, this might be what seals the deal. I've not had an uptick w/ phone calls tbh, and I'm pretty sure people will return to texting once the danger is averted a bit.

Le Bateau Ivre, Wednesday, 18 March 2020 13:41 (four years ago) link

Is it likely that it will become more difficult/cost-prohibitive to acquire lower-demand goods the further one lives from the source of said goods? I don't think that's an altogether bad thing, if so.

Unparalleled Elegance (Old Lunch), Wednesday, 18 March 2020 13:44 (four years ago) link

I think it really comes down to a) how long we're impacted by The Cov and b) how many people are directly affected by The Cov. Memories are short and it's easy to ignore things when they aren't happening to you specifically, but I have a feeling this is an upheaval likely to induce serious change, for better or worse.

Unparalleled Elegance (Old Lunch), Wednesday, 18 March 2020 13:46 (four years ago) link

I suspect that the very wealthy will be investing in sturdier locks, more robust security systems, etc. The wiser ones, anyway.

Unparalleled Elegance (Old Lunch), Wednesday, 18 March 2020 13:46 (four years ago) link

Now that we're both WFH, I've never spent this much daily time with my wife in our entire relationship, I imagine this will continue provided our daycare doesn't close.

OTOH, I recently heard a story about Chinese couples being released from quarantine and immediately filing for divorce.

Is it likely that it will become more difficult/cost-prohibitive to acquire lower-demand goods the further one lives from the source of said goods? I don't think that's an altogether bad thing, if so.

I'm thinking the opposite, given the rise of Amazon and the likely growth of other home delivery services.

Life is a banquet and my invitation was lost in the mail (j.lu), Wednesday, 18 March 2020 13:52 (four years ago) link

i keep waiting for the sky/air to clear a lot here but I think it's unlikely since we are in a valley.

Yerac, Monday, 30 March 2020 19:35 (four years ago) link

I would like to think that ppl might be less inclined to be cunts about the whole concept of prison

Like they’ll be about to moan about how “lenient” it is to lock a human being away for five years of their life in the shittiest conditions and then suddenly they’ll remember that time they lost their fucking mind after two weeks of having to mostly stay in their house with only Netflix and Disney plus and Ocado and deliveroo and Spotify and FaceTime and amazon prime and audible and six concubines for company

Microbes oft teem (wins), Tuesday, 31 March 2020 13:03 (four years ago) link

bloody concubine hoarders, some of us have to get by with only three

a struggle to make meat-snacking fit (bizarro gazzara), Tuesday, 31 March 2020 13:04 (four years ago) link

this may be a "men are from mars, women are from Venus" thing but I'm actually ok with rapists having a shitty time

kinder, Tuesday, 31 March 2020 13:39 (four years ago) link

Can certainly see how my post comes across as strongly pro-rapist but that isn’t how I intended it fwiw

I’m thinking of the daily mail reader arguments that judges are all too soft and it’s practically a holiday to lock people (including non-violent offenders and disproportionately non-whites) away for “only” a year or five or ten. We should at least be honest and start with the admission that this is a heinous punishment and argue why it’s good from there

Microbes oft teem (wins), Tuesday, 31 March 2020 14:14 (four years ago) link

The thought processes of Daily Mail readers are probably past saving tbh. There will always be some reason why XYZ doesn't apply to any other group.

kinder, Tuesday, 31 March 2020 16:13 (four years ago) link

Anyone else getting a ton of magazine ebook suggestions on amazon? The magazines usually bought in newsagents and supermarkets.

Robert Adam Gilmour, Tuesday, 31 March 2020 21:10 (four years ago) link

I just went outside to take out the trash and see if the bodega had any paper towels and it was terrifying. The dull gray sky and light drizzle didn't help matters much. Also paper towels were $3.50 a roll at the bodega where I wound up buying them (another had opened a Costco pack of Bounty and affixed a $3.99 price tag to each individual roll)

maura, Thursday, 2 April 2020 21:33 (four years ago) link

I timed my beer run perfectly today and picked up an 8 pack of giant paper towel rolls from the rapidly dwindling delivery that our local Safeway must have gotten just this morning. Also fresh strawberries and popsicles (people been hoarding the good popsicles too).

El Tomboto, Thursday, 2 April 2020 22:05 (four years ago) link

xp: our local kmart was reportedly selling individual rolls of toilet paper for $2.69.

☮️ (peace, man), Friday, 3 April 2020 11:01 (four years ago) link

I have been feeling really bad lately for people who are having to go through this alone, or worse, stuck with someone they would prefer not to be around constantly. I grew up starved of loving touch, and I know how that affected me. I already felt like I was living in a world where physical touch was stigmatized because of uncontrolled abusers and creeps without a proper understanding of consent or relational power dynamics. How many people are having, possibly for the first time, to live a life completely bereft of touch? How long will this go on, and what is happening to all those people?

Kate (rushomancy), Friday, 3 April 2020 14:26 (four years ago) link

three weeks pass...

The sales of clothing and accessories fell by more than half in March, a trend that is expected to only get worse in April. The entire executive team at Lord & Taylor was let go this month. Nordstrom has canceled orders and put off paying its vendors. The Neiman Marcus Group, the most glittering of the American department store chains, is expected to declare bankruptcy in the coming days, the first major retailer felled during the current crisis.

El Tomboto, Sunday, 26 April 2020 03:27 (three years ago) link

all stores will be online, 3% of the world will have jobs, we will be hooked up to machines that feed us Nerds that act as our sustenance.

all music will be made by Toby Keith

genital giant (Neanderthal), Sunday, 26 April 2020 03:32 (three years ago) link

I’m cool with all of that except the last sentence.

pomenitul, Sunday, 26 April 2020 03:32 (three years ago) link

The changes in logistics are not especially interesting or meaningful to me. If anything basic changes about 'how we live' as a result of this pandemic, I think it is likely to be that a much larger percentage of the privileged classes will come to realize that wealth and privilege cannot totally insulate them from unpredictable pain and suffering. I wonder if this will allow them to develop a greater empathy with the less privileged, but I'm not counting on it.

A is for (Aimless), Sunday, 26 April 2020 03:34 (three years ago) link

how did 3 weeks pass between the last post and the revive

groundhog day, holy shit

let me be your friend on the other end! (Karl Malone), Sunday, 26 April 2020 04:43 (three years ago) link

The story on the impending collapse of department stores suggests to me that gift cards will be much less desirable. In an age of massive economic uncertainty, purchasing credit as a gift will be far too risky. Tangibles rule.

doug watson, Sunday, 26 April 2020 09:39 (three years ago) link

we will be hooked up to machines that feed us Nerds that act as our sustenance.

so there's an upside, you're saying

she carries a torch. two torches, actually (Joan Crawford Loves Chachi), Sunday, 26 April 2020 10:03 (three years ago) link

to the optimism thread!

kim rong un (darraghmac), Sunday, 26 April 2020 10:20 (three years ago) link

i demand nerd ropes for the common man!

Fuck the NRA (ulysses), Sunday, 26 April 2020 17:20 (three years ago) link

I don't think I've bought something from a department store this century

A True White Kid that can Jump (Granny Dainger), Sunday, 26 April 2020 17:57 (three years ago) link

I bought some stuff from Century 21 the winter before last, does that count?

Together Again Or (James Redd and the Blecchs), Sunday, 26 April 2020 18:01 (three years ago) link

It's interesting looking back at previous pandemics just how quickly all the lessons that were learnt were utterly forgotten. cf these incredibly contemporary Japanese posters from the Spanish flu: http://www.spoon-tamago.com/2020/04/25/japan-spanish-flu-pandemic-manual/

The changes that will endure, I think, are those that have been held back for too long by reactionary resistance. A lot of "we can't possibly let you WFH because X" management positioning has been put to the test and proven nonsense.

The ultimate knock-ons of that sort of thing are hard to predict. eg: it hasn't gone unnoticed by the people I work with that when we Zoom one another, the 20-somethings in Manchester and Glasgow are living in the sorts of pads that in London only the top execs get to live in. A decent number of them are mainly only in London because it's where the work is – so if we enter WFH for a year plus, do they stay in their tiny London flatshares? I think the appeal of cosmpolitan-with-property-available towns is going to call to them. That's a huge reconfiguration, if it plays out on a large scale.

stet, Sunday, 26 April 2020 18:26 (three years ago) link

There's also a rare chance right now to banish fucking cars while the gettings good. Milan is trying that; I'd love to see other places do the same. London is blissful without the damn things.

stet, Sunday, 26 April 2020 18:26 (three years ago) link

oh man, if it was possible to banish cars in the US, similar to Milan or London, I would be over the moon. I like road trips, but I hate driving, I feel like I have a 20% chance of death on the roads of FL, and I love cities with public transportation.

but even if we had the ability to nationalize public transportation and eradicate the need for them, people would say "YOU CAN'T TELL ME I CAN'T DRIVE" and would purposefully die in car wrecks to prove a point.

genital giant (Neanderthal), Sunday, 26 April 2020 18:53 (three years ago) link

both stet posts otm and can def see some major traction across a number of fronts to push for the death of commuting and work-to-location

kim rong un (darraghmac), Sunday, 26 April 2020 20:24 (three years ago) link

London is blissful without the damn things.

― stet, Sunday, April 26, 2020 7:26 PM

Every time I've been to London I've been terrified of fast cars there. Some people drive like maniacs there (usually in expensive cars).

Robert Adam Gilmour, Sunday, 26 April 2020 20:37 (three years ago) link

that bit has got worse recently, sry

stet, Sunday, 26 April 2020 20:55 (three years ago) link

one month passes...

https://jalopnik.com/hertzs-late-night-bankruptcy-filing-sends-ripples-throu-1843628287

Car rental business drying up has significant effects on lots of other markets. If air travel stays depressed for a long time, the knock ons to car manufacturers and the used car market could be big.

El Tomboto, Tuesday, 26 May 2020 02:49 (three years ago) link

That's gonna kill the market for shitty model cars that no one else wants

longtime caller, first time listener (man alive), Tuesday, 26 May 2020 03:06 (three years ago) link

On Monday, Hertz dumped a bunch of bumble bee-colored Corvette z06s on to the used car market for a heck of a good deal. More used car deals were rolling in Saturday morning on Hertz’s website after the filing announcement. Here’s a 2020 BMW 740i for $52,949 and only 8,595 miles on the odometer, a full $5,000-$8,000 less than similar cars with similar milage in the same area, for instance.

There are plenty of less flashy cars for decent deals as well, especially if you’re in the market for one of the old rental car standbys, like a Toyota Corolla or a Chevy Tahoe. If a company that has been around since 1918 has to die, consumers might as well pick the bones clean.

El Tomboto, Tuesday, 26 May 2020 03:11 (three years ago) link

damn, there are actually some pretty great deals on the site right now. It's tempting because we are expecting to need a second car at some point in the next couple years. At the same time, we are fine without one for now, and there's no greater savings than not buying something at all.

longtime caller, first time listener (man alive), Tuesday, 26 May 2020 03:19 (three years ago) link

A 10-20% discount for a rental car would not be enough to get me to overlook the manner in which people drive rentals.

Donald Trump Also Sucks, Of Course (milo z), Tuesday, 26 May 2020 03:33 (three years ago) link

yeah, that's true. And tbh I'm seeing prices on Carvana that are not that far off from the Hertz prices, used car market in general seems pretty buyer-friendly.

longtime caller, first time listener (man alive), Tuesday, 26 May 2020 03:35 (three years ago) link

of course this happens right after I pay off my current vehicle.

I am a free. I am not man. A number. (Neanderthal), Tuesday, 26 May 2020 03:37 (three years ago) link

two weeks pass...

I was walking down a busy street the other day and someone yelled my name from across the street and waved. They were wearing a hat, bandana and sunglasses and completely unassuming clothing (I was wearing the same but no sunglasses). I just waved and yelled "take care", still have no idea who it was.

Jersey Al (Albert R. Broccoli), Sunday, 14 June 2020 23:54 (three years ago) link

Ornaldo Bloomps

Dig Dug the police (Neanderthal), Monday, 15 June 2020 00:01 (three years ago) link

LMAO!

Heavy Messages (jed_), Monday, 15 June 2020 01:53 (three years ago) link

maybe it was NAthaniel, looking for Jaime Spears email?

Heavy Messages (jed_), Monday, 15 June 2020 01:57 (three years ago) link


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