Love Letters for Fall: LGBTQIA+ // 2020

Hardly ever shouting matches, tbh. Mostly just little disagreements and smoldering anger and processing.

same here

although...i did actually scream in the heat of an intense talk last week. tbh i've had a lot of smoldering anger about a lot of things lately and haven't really had an outlet for it and it all just sorta bubbled up to the surface. i don't feel great admitting it, and i still feel shitty about having done it.

I'm in a good (avoidant) place with regard to fighting, but part of it is probably due to my being on absolute pins and anxious needles for the last 10 months.

Had good sex today tho, fwiw.

Nice!! Honeymooners u

JG don’t beat yourself up. I’ve been there way too many times to count. Be kind to yourself and let yourself process why you think it got there, it’ll take a couple of days.

Instances of smoldering anger have subsided significantly as the pandemic has gone on, to be frank. There just isn't as much to be upset about, and anything I am upset about seems pretty insignificant.

Yes pandemia is definitely beating trivialities and not-so-trivialities into submission for sure

Happy Thanksgiving’s eve sweetums
What’s the plan?

Happy Thanksgiving’s eve sweetums
What’s the plan?

IT’S ALMOST WINTER

I dreamed I bumped into a rather cute music writer whom I haven't met during normal times. I was better looking than he thought, for he kept flirting with me and I kept him swatting his comments aside, nervous about the girlfriend about to leave. When she left, we sat on the couch, and he said, "It's about time" and we start making out.

I'd forgotten the dream until I saw his photo on Instagram.

i was typing out a post about himbos of christmas past but i deleted it.

I had a dream the other night about two hook-ups I had many years ago. It was...something.

i got heated last night / this morning remembering this guy, his name was bl4k3 y3l4v1ch, who i hooked up with in the showers at a 24 hour fitness. he was like 6'3, built like a linebacker with a gigantic schlong. that was going to be my himbos of christmas past post and now i guess it's been resurrected. anyway it was fun to reminisce about him with my boyfriend, it turns out we're both in the bl4k3 y3l4v1ch club, but he took him in a sling at a sex party. anyway!!

Uh, you mean the erotic photographer who takes photos of musclebound twinks and leather cowboys?

hahahahaha

i didn't know he was so well known

read that sentence as "I didn't know he was so well hung."

lol, i definitely knew that part

map, I used to model in pr0n, I know everyone's names.

or at least, their "stage" names lol

haha, that's awesome

i wish we were at some kind of party and i could press you for stories.

anyway, the bf is on the same page as me wrt not celebrating christmas, so it's basically a 5 day long break for me, which i'm really looking forward to. wishing all the readers of this thread peace and all that (and if you don't like xmas as much as i don't like it, it will be over soon). take care of yourselves!

Likewise, map. Someday!

best to you and the bf.

thanks table, to you and yours too

Glad to hear from you all, I trust you are all on your way to a restful New Year’s! We’ll debate who starts the winter thread in due time 💋💋💋

This is my second year in a row spending Christmas with no family! But also my second year in a row doing a breakneck scoring job for a Sundance submission, so I think it'll be easier this year.

Oh I don't have much gay to report. I've been thinking about how gay men act shitty and then accuse people of "slut shaming" them when they are told they've been acting shitty. If you are trying to fuck my boyfriend behind my back, i.e., you're not being a slut! you're just being shitty! shame on you! I am shit-shaming you, not slut-shaming you

lol otm

I need to remember what "boyfriend," "slut-shaming," and, especially, "gay men" mean next year.

I need to remember what lol and otm mean next year.

Omg don’t get me started on slut shaming
Shit shaming otm

Who wants to start a winter thread?