I'm sorry I started this whole thing ...
― sarahell, Sunday, 21 February 2021 18:26 (three years ago) link
I really don't like pile ons against posters but considering my role in starting this mess, I am just stepping back and not fighting this battle.
― sarahell, Sunday, 21 February 2021 18:28 (three years ago) link
I'm sorry I had an incoherent meltdown in there, sarahell. I was trying to avoid it because it doesn't help anyone, but I just couldn't take it. Fwiw, I don't think anyone's mad at you now - I wasn't ever angry with you, just upset, and I get your explanation, it's cool.
But "my cruelty is feminist praxis" is the biggest load of bullshit and it needs to be called out. I am so tired and so miserable and it all feels so awful.
― emil.y, Sunday, 21 February 2021 18:41 (three years ago) link
Christine and gyac and emil.y and harbl are 100% otm in that thread and anyone with a passing familiarity with these posters will know it is, like, breathtakingly disingenuous to pretend that what they are objecting to are statements criticising cisheteropatriarchy and not yknow the things they say they are objecting to, viz the specific shitty behaviour of a consistently horrible and toxic person xp otm again
― jammy mcnullity (wins), Sunday, 21 February 2021 18:43 (three years ago) link
Seconded Emily - Sarah, you apologised, and that’s all that needed to happen. That the person digging their heels in and arguing for their right to be cruel - and that some of us are abusive fantasists - is nothing to do with you.
― scampless, rattled and puce (gyac), Sunday, 21 February 2021 18:45 (three years ago) link
Can we go back to the original discussion again? The original original one?
― A Scampo Darkly (Le Bateau Ivre), Sunday, 21 February 2021 18:46 (three years ago) link
Regularly causing pain to women and non-binary people seems to be fine if you can caricature them as servants of the kyriarchy. But we're not.
― emil.y, Sunday, 21 February 2021 18:48 (three years ago) link
Why certainly, I see no barriers in conducting a good faith discussion with someone who’s attacked my perception of reality and my mental stability!
― scampless, rattled and puce (gyac), Sunday, 21 February 2021 18:48 (three years ago) link
This was about human decency imo. You all were right to call it out.
― A Scampo Darkly (Le Bateau Ivre), Sunday, 21 February 2021 18:48 (three years ago) link
I really did end up crying my eyes out after my last post, and I'm still upset. I don't know why I had such an emotional reaction from that 1000 paragraph subtweet, but I did.
― Christine Green Leafy Dragon Indigo, Sunday, 21 February 2021 20:30 (three years ago) link
7674000000 ppl on the planet, 7673999999 of them are the problem hey
― scampsite (darraghmac), Sunday, 21 February 2021 20:37 (three years ago) link
Christine, you're the good guy here, don't let anyone to think otherwise.
― braised cod, Sunday, 21 February 2021 21:21 (three years ago) link
Thank you.
― Christine Green Leafy Dragon Indigo, Sunday, 21 February 2021 21:36 (three years ago) link
this moved to twitter ???
― sarahell, Sunday, 21 February 2021 21:39 (three years ago) link
They had no problem with dragging drama from other places on to here in the past, why not?
― Christine Green Leafy Dragon Indigo, Sunday, 21 February 2021 21:55 (three years ago) link
Oh. I was using "subtweet" as a generic term, sorry. What I was referring to was only on here.
― Christine Green Leafy Dragon Indigo, Sunday, 21 February 2021 21:59 (three years ago) link
sigh of relief
― sarahell, Sunday, 21 February 2021 22:01 (three years ago) link
I'm sorry, Christine. I've never seen you be anything other than a good, kind person on these boards, and you don't deserve to be made to feel this way.
― emil.y, Sunday, 21 February 2021 22:05 (three years ago) link
― Christine Green Leafy Dragon Indigo, Sunday, 21 February 2021 22:22 (three years ago) link
Wait whut
― illumi-naughty (Ye Mad Puffin), Sunday, 21 February 2021 22:45 (three years ago) link
― scampless, rattled and puce (gyac), Sunday, 21 February 2021 22:52 (three years ago) link
xp gyac -- got yr message -- ugh sorry
― sarahell, Sunday, 21 February 2021 22:53 (three years ago) link
Want to say that i admire sarahells checking herself and her direct response on this, as someone whod take a lot of talking around when called on his bullshit at times
― scampsite (darraghmac), Monday, 22 February 2021 00:16 (three years ago) link
I do too.
― Christine Green Leafy Dragon Indigo, Monday, 22 February 2021 00:19 (three years ago) link
yes
― Dan S, Monday, 22 February 2021 00:21 (three years ago) link
― scampless, rattled and puce (gyac), Monday, 22 February 2021 00:29 (three years ago) link
how about let's not
― Mr. Cacciatore (Moodles), Monday, 22 February 2021 03:50 (three years ago) link
Clearly I need to catch up; I'm only on part 2 of treesh's epic "Sleep Viking" podcast
― illumi-naughty (Ye Mad Puffin), Monday, 22 February 2021 11:15 (three years ago) link
My controversial DP opinion is that "Harder, Better, Faster, Stronger" is not an ideal approach
― flamboyant goon tie included, Monday, 22 February 2021 23:04 (three years ago) link
lmao, also not controversial afaic
― lord of the ting tings (map), Monday, 22 February 2021 23:08 (three years ago) link
Is the double meaning of DP intended as part of the joke there or am I just even dirtier than fgti?
― emil.y, Monday, 22 February 2021 23:10 (three years ago) link
DP less of a thing for those with only one -
actually idk. idk at all
― imago, Monday, 22 February 2021 23:20 (three years ago) link
xp definitely not just you.
― scampless, rattled and puce (gyac), Monday, 22 February 2021 23:22 (three years ago) link
i most definitely was reading DP that way
― if you meh them, shut up (Neanderthal), Monday, 22 February 2021 23:33 (three years ago) link
We’re talking about directors of photography, right?
― pomenitul, Monday, 22 February 2021 23:59 (three years ago) link
dearest pomentiful
― imago, Tuesday, 23 February 2021 00:00 (three years ago) link
Oh so it’s actually dynamic programming.
― pomenitul, Tuesday, 23 February 2021 00:02 (three years ago) link
I'm cackling
― flamboyant goon tie included, Tuesday, 23 February 2021 00:09 (three years ago) link
‘Harder, Better, Faster, Stronger’ has always been my posting MO.
― pomenitul, Tuesday, 23 February 2021 00:11 (three years ago) link
even though i felt like garbage, i did have confidence about the quality of my boobs ... so
― sarahell, Tuesday, 23 February 2021 00:12 (three years ago) link
controversial DJP opinions
― mookieproof, Tuesday, 23 February 2021 00:16 (three years ago) link
xxp I look forward to seeing the second one at some point
― scampless, rattled and puce (gyac), Tuesday, 23 February 2021 00:46 (three years ago) link
Counting x's v carefully here
― scampsite (darraghmac), Tuesday, 23 February 2021 00:48 (three years ago) link
It’s a four-for-the-price-of-one type of deal.
― pomenitul, Tuesday, 23 February 2021 00:50 (three years ago) link
putting the J in the DP
― That's not really my scene (I'm 41) (forksclovetofu), Tuesday, 23 February 2021 04:04 (three years ago) link
usually worth ignoring, unless it's in a professional writing/editing capacity― Judge Roi Behan (Aimfewer), Tuesday, 23 February 2021 00:56 (eight hours ago) bookmarkflaglink
― Judge Roi Behan (Aimfewer), Tuesday, 23 February 2021 00:56 (eight hours ago) bookmarkflaglink
― Tim, Tuesday, 23 February 2021 09:31 (three years ago) link
(no insult intended)
the mere idea of Barack Obama and Bruce Springsteen "in conversation" makes my skin hurt
― John Wesley Glasscock (Hadrian VIII), Tuesday, 23 February 2021 21:46 (three years ago) link
yeah xp to things you just don't care about
― That's not really my scene (I'm 41) (forksclovetofu), Tuesday, 23 February 2021 21:49 (three years ago) link
has anyone posted a pic of the dog though. Honestly that is the only thing interesting.
― sarahell, Tuesday, 23 February 2021 22:04 (three years ago) link