songs that make you cry

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history lesson, pt. 2

j fail (cenotaph), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 15:26 (twenty-one years ago) link

John Coltrane - "Alabama"

Mark (MarkR), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 15:26 (twenty-one years ago) link

Are there any songs that have you welling up and gently weeping?

Fuck no. I never cry.

Alt ans: "Visions of Johanna"

Jody Beth Rosen (Jody Beth Rosen), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 15:28 (twenty-one years ago) link

Against All Odds by Phil Collins. I'm not explaining that.

Nick Southall (Nick Southall), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 15:36 (twenty-one years ago) link

Oooh...good one, Nick.

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 15:37 (twenty-one years ago) link

Actually, the original, non-technofied version of "Missing" by Everything But the Girl used to get me too.

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 15:37 (twenty-one years ago) link

It doesn't have to be 'songs that make me sad'. In fact, the only songs that make me sad/distressed are BAD songs. If I'm crying, moved to tears, I'm also very happy at having been moved. It might just be single inflection on the vocal that does it, but it's an awe-inducing thing when sound produces such a tangible emotional effect. I always feel blessed when the tears start rolling.

mick hall (mick hall), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 15:38 (twenty-one years ago) link

Kenny Rogers, "Lady"

hstencil, Wednesday, 19 March 2003 15:41 (twenty-one years ago) link

Brave Captain's "Go With Yourself." Never fails: "Hey son / Hey son / You never have to leave / I didn't mean those things / That I said to you"

Neudonym, Wednesday, 19 March 2003 15:42 (twenty-one years ago) link

Here is the reason why.

Nick Southall (Nick Southall), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 15:47 (twenty-one years ago) link

John Lennon - Oh, My Love
Tom Waits- I Hope that I Don't Fall in Love with You
Shirelles - Will You Love Me Tomorrow

Carey (Carey), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 15:50 (twenty-one years ago) link

Most songs-that-make-me-cry aren't sad songs, really. A lot of them are beautiful songs by people who died too soon (Blind Melon's "Change" fr'instance, or "All Apologies" by Kurt, plus the whole "I'm married/I'm buried" thing in the lyrics to that.)

nickalicious (nickalicious), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 15:52 (twenty-one years ago) link

actually, as it turns out, just about everything I've played so far this morning; now it's Lo Borges' "O Trem Azul." apparently, I need a nap or something.

Neudonym, Wednesday, 19 March 2003 15:59 (twenty-one years ago) link

um, wheatus, teenage dirtbag. it's beautiful isn't it?

pete b. (pete b.), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 16:27 (twenty-one years ago) link

I was just thinking of TW's IHTIDFILWY

Horace Mann (Horace Mann), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 16:55 (twenty-one years ago) link

All of Neil Youngs Harvest makes me weepy
and i'm not even a fan.

girl scout heroin (iamamonkey), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 18:32 (twenty-one years ago) link

Iris D. "Easy's Getting Harder Every Day"
"A Song For You" Gram Parsons (Emmylou's harmonies obv!)

Aaron A., Wednesday, 19 March 2003 18:38 (twenty-one years ago) link

big star "holocaust"

jack cole (jackcole), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 18:51 (twenty-one years ago) link

The Beach Boys' "Til I Die" and "Caroline No" do it every time.

mike a (mike a), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 18:52 (twenty-one years ago) link

Pearl Jam - All those Yesterdays
David Bowie - Space Oddity (...tell my wife I love her very much...)
Pavement - Infinite Spark
Bach's Air on a G String
The Frames dc - Your Face
Elliot Smith - Waltz #2
Most of John Lennon's Plastic Ono Band
Brian Wilson - Melt Away
Van Der Graaf Generator - Refugees
Beach Boys - A Day In The Life of A Tree

dog latin (dog latin), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 19:07 (twenty-one years ago) link

This Mortal Coil's rendition of "Song to the Siren"

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 19:12 (twenty-one years ago) link

The Divine Comedy - The Summerhouse
Tom Waits - Kentucky Avenue, Take It With Me
Red House Painters - Katy Song, Smokey, Michael (and likely many more)
Red Sovine - Teddy Bear (yes, I'm THAT lame)

many more, I'm sure.

Jonathan, Wednesday, 19 March 2003 19:33 (twenty-one years ago) link

Echo & the Bunnymen - Fools Like Us, Rust, Ocean Rain
Roxy Music - all of Flesh & Blood, some of Avalon, Sunset
Bryan Ferry - Bête Noir
Duran Duran - Do You Believe In Shame?
New Order - Dream Attack (surprisingly stunning lyrics for a band known for its bad lyrics)
Peter Gabriel - Washing Of The Water
David Sylvian - The First Day, Darkest Dreaming
Orchestral Manoeuvres in the Dark - Victory Waltz

Note: these songs never really made me cry but sure have a good potential of being able to do so!

Tijn Gilissen, Wednesday, 19 March 2003 19:41 (twenty-one years ago) link

Neil Young's "Helpless" cuz it's about a place I was

Horace Mann (Horace Mann), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 20:13 (twenty-one years ago) link

Its Neil Youngs Kermit voice that turns on the faucets for me. If Neil sang Rainbow Connection I would probable need medication

girl scout heroin (iamamonkey), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 20:19 (twenty-one years ago) link

Or kermit singing "Needle and the damage done" same effect

girl scout heroin (iamamonkey), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 20:20 (twenty-one years ago) link

Daniel Johnston "Some Things Last a Long Time"

Curt1s St3ph3ns, Wednesday, 19 March 2003 20:33 (twenty-one years ago) link

Willie Nelson's new Demos collection is, like, 90% weepers.

Horace Mann (Horace Mann), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 20:39 (twenty-one years ago) link

Dar Williams - Mortal City

Becky (Rebecca), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 20:48 (twenty-one years ago) link

Easier to list the ones that DON'T make me cry.

matt riedl (veal), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 20:54 (twenty-one years ago) link

nico's "these days", large slabs of EBTG's amplified heart album, durutti column "tomorrow", grand salvo "sordid trophy" (and others)..

electric sound of jim (electricsound), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 23:19 (twenty-one years ago) link

Lots of stuff. For goosebumps and shivers it could be purely instrumental, but for genuine tears -- for me at least -- it's gotta be the right combination of lyrics and music.* For instance, Shack's "Reinstated," the part that goes:
And I remember when you made me feel so good
Just to be near you
Oh, you've let me down so much I fear you

*The exception might be instrumental music I associate with sad real-life experiences, in which case it's more a matter of coincidence rather than anything attributable to the music itself.

Paul in Santa Cruz (Paul in Santa Cruz), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 23:33 (twenty-one years ago) link

oh you've just reminded me of another - "Loaded Man" by John Head (of Shack fame)

electric sound of jim (electricsound), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 23:35 (twenty-one years ago) link

i'll second the Neil Young, especially Helpless, especially the Unplugged version and the first line (oh no I'm welling up as I think of it) 'There is a place in North Ontario/ With dream comfort memory despair'. Boohhooho! [Sniffs. Exits.}

'Don't be Denied' has a similar plaintive whine.

mick hall (mick hall), Thursday, 20 March 2003 11:51 (twenty-one years ago) link

I second 'Against All Odds' - a couple of weeks ago I found myself outside a coffee bar which was testing how loud their speakers could go. It was rush-hour, there was pitching rain, heavy traffic, and they played THAT track. My gf saw me getting caught up in a moment, sneered and tutted, gave me a light then walked home.

nick.K (nick.K), Thursday, 20 March 2003 11:59 (twenty-one years ago) link

Something about "Against All Odds" really gets me too. Yes, Phil Collins is a hopelessly embarassing schmuck, and yes....the movie from whence the song comes from is basically just one long episode of "Miami Vice" (Jeff Bridges plays a wounded football player hotshot employed to fetch the wandering ex-girlfriend [sultry Aussie Rachel Ward] for sleazeball bookie James Woods in picturesque Mexico, only to fall hopelessly in love with her big brown eyes, untethered spirit and large, tanned Australian peritoneum), but the chorus of this song .....Just Take a Look At Me Noooow!!!!, Well there's Just an Empty Space!!!....just give those old heart strings a big ol' power-chordey strummmmmmmmm.

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Thursday, 20 March 2003 23:17 (twenty-one years ago) link

I have to admit 'Against All Odds' gets me choked up as well. Probably Blue Rodeo 'It Hasnt Hit Me Yet' and Bob Dylan 'Don't Think Twice It's Alright'.

S Samson, Thursday, 20 March 2003 23:20 (twenty-one years ago) link

Tijn - Do You Believe in Shame was a great record, Duranduran at their best. 'Come Undone' is another.

Anything by This Mortal Coil would surely make even the hardest blokes sniffle.

I've been known to shed a tear whenever I hear a Starsailor record, too. Vile.

russ t, Friday, 21 March 2003 11:16 (twenty-one years ago) link

To be honest, the first time I heard Capt. Beefheart's "Big Eyed Beans From Venus" I cried - I just couldn't believe how wonderful it was. I often cry in the presence of greatness as opposed to mere sadness.

Dadaismus, Friday, 21 March 2003 11:21 (twenty-one years ago) link

Ooh Child-The Five Stairsteps

Nordicskillz (Nordicskillz), Friday, 21 March 2003 11:22 (twenty-one years ago) link

...and two more.... who can't fail to be moved by 'Asleep' and 'Please please please let me get what I want' by the Smiths?

russ t, Friday, 21 March 2003 12:34 (twenty-one years ago) link

My Peter Gabriel weepie songs:
'Father, Son', 'Here Comes the Flood' (Exposure version), 'I Grieve', 'Sky Blue', 'Mercy Street', and of course 'Don't Give Up'...
Listening to these in sequence always makes me dissolve. I do it when I'm feeling especially depressed.

Anna Rose, Friday, 21 March 2003 18:14 (twenty-one years ago) link

David Bowie, "I'm Not Quite" (known later as "Letter to Hermione" -- but NOT that version.)

Recently: Iron & Wine, "Bird Stealing Bread"

jaymc., Friday, 21 March 2003 22:19 (twenty-one years ago) link

Big Star's UPbeat songs, for some reason, don't make me cry or anything, but definitely overwhelm me in a positive way.

and lots of Neil

roger adultery (roger adultery), Friday, 21 March 2003 22:26 (twenty-one years ago) link

There are some tracks on Kiss Me, Kiss Me, Kiss Me and Disintegration by the Cure that are weep-worthy, notably "How Beautiful You Are" "Last Dance" and one or two others. "Push" and "A Night Like This" (on The Head on the Door) both exude that same bittersweet heartbroken melancholly as well.

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Friday, 21 March 2003 22:43 (twenty-one years ago) link

The song that always makes tears is Parallel Lines by Kings of Convenience. His voice falters, the bit where the piano comes in, and the bit about the lyrics waking to a sash of snow on the window, just reminds me of sad winters in the dacha. Lovely lovely but so sad. Another song Rainbo Conversation by Stereolab. Moving tune but the lyrics too -"I yearn for romantic passion" beautifully sung so sincere and humanistic. It makes you realise that life could be wonderful and that can bring tears of recognition and heartfelt warmth.Maybe its the words that can set me off! Thats why I like English language so much, so many ways of expressing emotion.

Liliya, Saturday, 22 March 2003 22:46 (twenty-one years ago) link

not a song but masayuki takayanagi and karou abe improvising prob gets me as close to tears of joy as much as anything.

Julio Desouza (jdesouza), Saturday, 22 March 2003 22:54 (twenty-one years ago) link


'It's only just begun' by Dionne Warwick.

Someone else mentioned Duranduran so I figured, hey fuck it, why not be honest for once?

Gatinha (rwillmsen), Saturday, 22 March 2003 22:57 (twenty-one years ago) link

Dismemberment Plan, "The City"

j.lu (j.lu), Saturday, 22 March 2003 23:16 (twenty-one years ago) link

last night, "Missing Miss MacColl" by Green Pajamas

electric sound of jim (electricsound), Sunday, 23 March 2003 00:24 (twenty-one years ago) link

Mine would be "Dirty Boulevard" by Lou Reed and "The Dutchman" by Michael Smith.

banjoboy, Monday, 11 November 2019 21:28 (four years ago) link

Shipbuilding is pretty gut-wrenching

https://www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/b01r0g4h

koogs, Monday, 11 November 2019 21:46 (four years ago) link

Just realized there's at least one other song on my list: Neko Case's "Thrice All American," the last verse in particular. There are much sadder songs that don't make me cry, but this one just hits the right mental nerve somehow.

Well I don't make it home much, I sadly neglect you
But that's how you like it, away from the world.
God bless California, make way for the Wal-Mart
I hope they don't find you, Tacoma.

Lily Dale, Monday, 11 November 2019 22:01 (four years ago) link

O Superman, so totally OTM

Maresn3st, Monday, 11 November 2019 22:06 (four years ago) link

Kinks, "Some Mother's Son" made me well up yesterday.

'Skills' Wallace (Tom D.), Monday, 11 November 2019 22:07 (four years ago) link

The Unthanks' "Fareweel Regality" gets me every fucking time.

Simon H., Monday, 11 November 2019 22:18 (four years ago) link

Fairytale of New York. Especially if I'm whiskey'd up.

Once, driving home from a get-together with friends, "Brandy" came on the radio. Pushed some buttons and I got really worked up, blinky-eyed and biting my lip. I can't say what it was exactly and while I still like the song it has never moved me that much again.

But Fairytale of New York gets to me on the regular. The bit where they say "you took my dreams from me...." So busted, so sad, so good.

Cow_Art, Tuesday, 12 November 2019 04:20 (four years ago) link

i went to see an interview with julie gold at the library, and geez, the story she told about writing "from a distance," then her performance, made me well up. it would make anybody well up. maybe start at around 24 minutes?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BPBDsu1BAzc

Thus Sang Freud, Tuesday, 12 November 2019 11:31 (four years ago) link

Still hasn't put this on an album.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zrodis8sX-Y

Jazzbo, Tuesday, 12 November 2019 13:27 (four years ago) link

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7tLbSIwPqu0

reggie (qualmsley), Tuesday, 12 November 2019 13:47 (four years ago) link

The only piece of music that makes me choke up without fail is Movement V of 'Quartet for the End of Time' by Messiaen.
― ultros ultros-ghali, Wednesday, March 12, 2014

OTM. This was the first thing that came to my mind. And I'm nodding furiously at "Goin' Back", "This Guy's In Love With You" and "Landslide" etc, too. (Pretty much any recordings.) I feel like I could list a zillion things -- music with at least some potential to make me weep is the only music I can be bothered with a lot of the time!

[XP: oh god, that entire album!]

Nag! Nag! Nag!, Tuesday, 12 November 2019 13:50 (four years ago) link

I know I have posted it on a similar thread, but my God, "Alicia Ross" by Kathleen Edwards...

Josh in Chicago, Tuesday, 12 November 2019 13:53 (four years ago) link

The Unthanks' "Fareweel Regality" gets me every fucking time.

Fareweel Regality destroys me but the live version of King of Rome is somehow even more moving.

Life is a meaningless nightmare of suffering...save string (Chinaski), Tuesday, 12 November 2019 15:36 (four years ago) link

Here's The Tender Coming too, oh my stars...

Maresn3st, Tuesday, 12 November 2019 16:40 (four years ago) link

'Gan To The Kye' always gets me

Le Bateau Ivre, Tuesday, 12 November 2019 16:48 (four years ago) link

And of course, 'Mount The Air' ;_;

Le Bateau Ivre, Tuesday, 12 November 2019 16:49 (four years ago) link

"The Court of the Crimson King" smashes me every time I hear it. The grandiosity of the theme always makes my eyes wet...

walking towards the sun since 2007 (alex in mainhattan), Wednesday, 13 November 2019 14:22 (four years ago) link

"Across the Universe" is another one. Despite its prevalence.

walking towards the sun since 2007 (alex in mainhattan), Wednesday, 13 November 2019 14:25 (four years ago) link

Actually 'Awaken' by Yes makes me well up, the 'workings of man' section, the second time around especially after which the choirs kick in and it all gets very rapturous.

Ironically, the best version is not by Yes but by Todmobile with Anderson on vocals.

Maresn3st, Wednesday, 13 November 2019 14:29 (four years ago) link

The Todmorden/Anderson performance of Awaken is like the pinnacle of prog or something, yeah

imago, Wednesday, 13 November 2019 14:31 (four years ago) link

'Together We Are Beautiful' gives me the pinpricks. It's supposed to be this super-romantic song but there's an ever-so-slightly minor twinge in it that sets me off, as though Fern Kinney is 'protesting too much' about how perfectly in love they are. It brings the bittersweet notion that while everything smells like roses on the surface, the possibility of things falling apart at some future point is very real and the singer is naively in denial about it..

YOU CALL THIS JOURNALSIM? (dog latin), Wednesday, 13 November 2019 14:36 (four years ago) link

xxxp yeah everyone hates on Across The Universe but it fills me with melancholy

YOU CALL THIS JOURNALSIM? (dog latin), Wednesday, 13 November 2019 14:37 (four years ago) link

Not a song and a complete cliché, to boot, but the fourth and final movement of Mahler's 9th Symphony:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tkChdHBuoiQ&t=3237s

pomenitul, Wednesday, 13 November 2019 14:43 (four years ago) link

YT time stamps are not ILX-friendly, alas:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tkChdHBuoiQ

(It starts around 53:57.)

pomenitul, Wednesday, 13 November 2019 14:44 (four years ago) link

Half Asleep by School of Seven Bells, gets me by the second line. Cannot explain it, I've never analysed the lyrics to see if *omg it me* and I have no great love for anything else by them.

The Pingularity (ledge), Tuesday, 19 November 2019 14:03 (four years ago) link

Richard Dawson - Jogging. There's a precise part of that song where the song starts building and he sings 'There's no such thing as a quick fix'.
It's the double-meaning behind that line: He can't fix his personal demons just by jogging, but at the same time there's no quick fix for the problems faced in the world

YOU CALL THIS JOURNALSIM? (dog latin), Tuesday, 19 November 2019 14:13 (four years ago) link

one year passes...

why did i put 'do you remember walter' on just now ffs

imago, Tuesday, 1 December 2020 13:59 (three years ago) link

oh, because it's one of the best songs ever written? sure, but

imago, Tuesday, 1 December 2020 14:00 (three years ago) link

Schubert - Nacht und Traume (probably without vocals)
June Tabor - And The Band Played Waltzing Matilda
Nick Drake - All My Trials
Daniel Johnston - I Had A Dream
Epic Soundtracks - Sad Song
Richard And Linda Thompson - For Shame Of Doing Wrong

gravalicious, Tuesday, 1 December 2020 19:07 (three years ago) link

eight months pass...

A recent recording of Alfred Schnittke's 3rd Violin Concerto, with Vadim Gluzman, the Lucerne Symphony Orchestra and James Gaffigan, prompted me to revisit the piece for the first time in years. I can't bear to listen to it very often because of the excruciating affect it inflicts. The music itself is in pain, each note played a pure exposure of nerves, from the tremolo-laden violin solo that kicks off the work in medias res to the final chorale-like 'Andante', which achieves release – as always in Schnittke – through exhaustion and extinction.

This is a different recording, featuring the concerto's dedicatee, Oleg Kagan, a mere year before his death from cancer, further exacerbating the piece's obvious pathos:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qhwItJPUz6A

So yeah, not a song, but it tears me up every time.

pomenitul, Monday, 2 August 2021 11:48 (two years ago) link

That Paul Buchanan song about the cars in the garden always gets to me.

henry s, Monday, 2 August 2021 12:13 (two years ago) link

Flaming Lips - Race for the Prize

Hideous Lump, Monday, 2 August 2021 13:09 (two years ago) link

The ”I miss my grandmother” part at the end of Dry Cleaning’s “Goodnight”.

Bo Burzum (Boring, Maryland), Monday, 2 August 2021 14:53 (two years ago) link

Oh, and Brahms’ Deutsches Requiem

Bo Burzum (Boring, Maryland), Monday, 2 August 2021 14:54 (two years ago) link

Thanks Pom, I’ve been on a big Schnittke jag the last year. I also have kind of a thing for communist era color tv footage so it scratches two itches.

Bo Burzum (Boring, Maryland), Monday, 2 August 2021 14:57 (two years ago) link

My pleasure – and apologies for the risk of weeping involved.

pomenitul, Monday, 2 August 2021 15:03 (two years ago) link

one month passes...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xt1C00e__5c

Vanishing Point (Chinaski), Sunday, 5 September 2021 10:10 (two years ago) link

three months pass...

St Petersburg Chamber Choir, Nikolai Korniev - аллилуйя. се жених грядет (alleluia. behold, the bridegroom) (Anon)

from
Sacred Russian Choral Music

https://img.discogs.com/vpmFoXzYFzoE4xJyVJ8o9hkhlgw=/fit-in/600x593/filters:strip_icc():format(jpeg):mode_rgb():quality(90)/discogs-images/R-14196628-1569681018-5180.jpeg.jpg

meisenfek, Friday, 31 December 2021 13:55 (two years ago) link

five months pass...

"Temptation" (the New Order one) pierces my armour far too often

assert (matttkkkk), Friday, 10 June 2022 00:13 (one year ago) link

I very rarely hear a new song that makes me cry. I think the last one might have been "Snow is Falling in Manhattan" by Purple Mountains.

Chris L, Friday, 10 June 2022 01:45 (one year ago) link

eight months pass...

Pedro Soler & Gaspar Claus "Encuentro en Brooklyn" ^^^

Shard-borne Beatles with their drowsy hums (Chinaski), Monday, 6 March 2023 12:22 (one year ago) link


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